Complacency!!! Like have a goal and be driven. If not you’re wasting time, money, and everyone’s energy. Plus I don’t wanna hear complaining, negative people are a drain!
Lack of willingness to communicate, learning how to communicate, learning how to meet the other’s needs. Lack of effort. I feel like there’s a Rolodex somewhere with my list on it…
My ex did receive help that he needed in order to see ours kids. We he does pick them up every other weekend , I keep the conversation short , it’s still tough for me to even look at him