I usually defer to what the other person wants or needs. That's true on dates or anytime I eat with someone. Also, if it was my idea and my invitation, then it should be my bill.
Do you usually walk fast or slow when walking to get somewhere?
self-loathing, blaming myself for everything, thinking I’m worthless and not deserving of happiness, and toxic guilt and shame to name a few. I don’t bite my nails though.