Does size really matter?

I'm super skinny and small and am not curvy or thick. I get teased a lot and made fun of for my lack of size. So I'd say it does matter. Cause everyone seems to like taller, thicker, bustier women.
 
Silver_Smile said:
I'm super skinny and small and am not curvy or thick. I get teased a lot and made fun of for my lack of size. So I'd say it does matter. Cause everyone seems to like taller, thicker, bustier women.
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Don't take any notice of how others think of you. If your happy in yourself then thats all that counts. I'm no skinny bloke believe me and yes i have issues with my own appearance but their my issues no one else's ;)

It takes all sorts to make this big melting pot of a world and we all have our own place in it. ;)
 
Silver_Smile said:
I'm super skinny and small and am not curvy or thick. I get teased a lot and made fun of for my lack of size. So I'd say it does matter. Cause everyone seems to like taller, thicker, bustier women.
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Ignore them they have know idea, apart from superficial shallow opinions.

And as for stated preferences like taller etc, it's usually an inaccurate assumption based on advertising etc
 
Silver_Smile said:
I'm super skinny and small and am not curvy or thick. I get teased a lot and made fun of for my lack of size. So I'd say it does matter. Cause everyone seems to like taller, thicker, bustier women.
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LOL hon, there's always going to be someone who'd want something more or something else than what he/she already has. Unless and until one is sated mentally, they'll always pick on the flaws. So yeah, you'll have to find someone you connect with because at the end of the day when size or other physical attributes comes into play, it doesn't last very long.
 
xyzrp said:
LOL hon, there's always going to be someone who'd want something more or something else than what he/she already has. Unless and until one is sated mentally, they'll always pick on the flaws. So yeah, you'll have to find someone you connect with because at the end of the day when size comes into play, it doesn't last very long.
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Or it's not as advertised hahahahaha
 
As others have mentioned, I think size comes into play far more in terms of casual sex and hookups. I do prefer size, and if I'm just trying to get laid, I don't care nearly as much about a guy's personality -- give me a fit guy with abs and a big dick and chances are I'll be plenty happy lol. However, also as others have mentioned, size isn't the last word no matter what. You need to know how to work it, and I've definitely hooked up with guys who thrilled me at the reveal and then greatly disappointed me upon taking me to bed.

Size is all about preference, and preferences are just that. If they were required, they would be requisites. And I'm willing to bet there are women (and men) out there with size requisites, but most of those people probably aren't looking for a long-term relationship. When I look for a partner, I look for sense of humor and kindness above all. Most everything else can be worked on as you grow together. A successful casual hookup can be based solely on sex, but a successful romantic partnership absolutely cannot.
 
The thickness is much more important than the length in my opinion, but size is never a deal maker or breaker. The difference between good sex and bad sex is the guy's confidence (being comfortable naked and knowing exactly what he wants to do)
 
I think most of us would readily admit to having preferences regarding physical characteristics. Speaking for myself, such preferences fall into the "nice to have" bucket. Personality to me is far more important, as is intellectual compatibility. However, just as important and often compromised is sexual compatibility. Are you dominant or submissive? Do you even really know? Is good oral sex really important to you? Are you fine with the same thing every time? Etcetera. I'd wager that a high percentage (maybe a majority) of couples is mismatched sexually, believing that they were in good shape having satisfied other things on their wishlists.
 
SexyAsianBitch said:
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Amen sister !!
 
From what I've been told from my female friend's POV is that it can't be Horse sized or erect Nipple sized.... Between 6 to 8 inches is preferred, but if the guy has no idea how to please HER instead of pleasing himself, then it doesn't matter the size he's basically useless and that's why dildos were invented... true story!
 
MannyMan said:
From what I've been told from my female friend's POV is that it can't be Horse sized or erect Nipple sized.... Between 6 to 8 inches is preferred, but if the guy has no idea how to please HER instead of pleasing himself, then it doesn't matter the size he's basically useless and that's why dildos were invented... true story!
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Funny as it is. They came from medical equipment used to treat hysteria.
 
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