Dom/Sub Dynamics

This is the closest place I've seen to ask. Sorry to bother ya mates, new here. Lookin' for a group, chat, mates into bdsm, ds, dss, msd. Got warned in chat me first bloody day 'bout terms and word uses. Might there be an I.C. member about or an MT/P? I posted mine in the status, so I think its all well n good.. someone let m know. G'day mates. MoS
 
ShyPlusSize said:
Absolutely love your post!
I used to enjoy engaging in these conversations in the sun and dom room here but...well...Its definitely changed there, too many people watched 50 shades of grey and became experts
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thats not an exaggeration....and shy..you are an adorable person and glad to have met you. I hope maybe we can get to know one another a bit better.
 
G'day all. Only had one reply, said keep checkin' back here and ta check the sex chat and the dom/sub chat. Guess that's better than fuck off mate. Thanks for now. Be seein' ya. MoS
 
Master_of_Sins said:
G'day all. Only had one reply, said keep checkin' back here and ta check the sex chat and the dom/sub chat. Guess that's better than fuck off mate. Thanks for now. Be seein' ya. MoS
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Yea coz most people, me included, have no idea what these are:
ds, dss, msd.
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And what this means:
Might there be an I.C. member about or an MT/P?
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I guess your target demographic would?
 
this means the larger lot of ya are new to bdsm and ya really haven't a bloody clue what yer doin' or why. that's ok, no worries. i'll wait a bit an see if anyone else comes round like that mate you've got here. the one that knows his shit. bit long winded fella but spot on with his knowledge. be in an out, thanks for the note love. cheers, MoS
 
G'day. Looks ta be a bit of cheeky shit about, no worries. Don't care for cheerios love, even with fresh fruit in it. Haven't a bloody clue what ya did to the chips, but yer the one cookin'. All the software references, asd, adf, asdf, simple file extensions. Really kinda lost as ta why ya placed 'em there but maybe ya have dyslexia, I don't know. As for me target demographics I'd like ta start with meeting others who know a bit about bdsm, kink and what really goes about behind closed doors. Seems the lot here really couldn't answer me callin' card or really doesn't know-how. {I.C.'s} are private sector or private member socials. Some by city some preferences some are international. MT/P's also memberships usually local some social other private. If ya belong to any you have credentials. DS is common sense Dom Sub, if ya don't know that by now it's time to move the fuck on and go back to wankin' and finger-fuckin'. DSS should be known too. Dom Sub Slave see all before. MSD might be new ta ya, Master-Slave Domination (Techniques, Methods, Practices..not fucked up abuses and mucked up shit to hurt people permanently but certainly within everyone's personal limits and boundaries) Now I'm numb as fuck so its time for a piss and find something ta do. Cheers, MoS
 
I’m glad this popped up, unfortunately I’m just away to sleep as I have work early tomorrow. Wanted to leave a quick message so I can find it again and come back tomorrow to go into this more. I am a Dom irl but have been out of it for a while as have had a vanilla relationship but will be going back. Anyway hope to talk with some of you tomorrow.
 
UnholyAngel said:
I’m glad this popped up, unfortunately I’m just away to sleep as I have work early tomorrow. Wanted to leave a quick message so I can find it again and come back tomorrow to go into this more. I am a Dom irl but have been out of it for a while as have had a vanilla relationship but will be going back. Anyway hope to talk with some of you tomorrow.
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Looking forward to having you on this thread :)
 
ShyPlusSize said:
Looking forward to having you on this thread :)
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I was just literally away to start typing when this your message showed up lol timing I suppose.

Anyway like I said I’ve been out of it for a little while but still have my knowledge and some of my toys and furniture stored away.

I have not been into the chat rooms as have had bad experiences previously with chat room. I prefer to be in contact with my sub in a more permanent way ie private messages on a forum like this or on an app on the phone like WhatsApp or kik.

I’m pretty much an open book so if anyone has questions please feel free to ask.

@ShyPlusSize It’s a good forum and nice to be able to speak to like minded people about what they like and dislike and share ideas. I liked reading what @SirRocksAlot had to say and it reassuring to see someone open up that much publicity.
 
Ive definitely lost a bit of faith in the chat rooms that's why I thought this thread would be a nice idea I love hearing different experiences n dynamics and its nice to see a few experienced people here too anyone's welcome though so even if your just curious feel free to ask questions
 
Ok let’s see if we can get a bit of movement in here, I’m going to ask a few open questions and see if we can’t get a discussion going.

What initially attracted or stirred your curiosity about the scene?

What is your favourite aspect about being a Dom/Sub?

What is your favourite item to use with your sub or be used by your Dom?

How long have you been in the scene?

Are you aware of FetLife.com?

That’s all for now, feel free to answer one, some, all or none of them.
 
I realised I was a sub at heart but would never do it through fear again only through love respect and loyalty
I started off really shy and embarrassed to a certain extent but grew to find strength in been a sub, I'm in control totally in rl as in running the house looking after the bills cooking n kids ect and I find it a euphoric feeling been able to let go of all that and trust someone enough too guide me and keep me safe while I'm doing it
Rope play is a big love of mine not just for the kink but the closeness and the art of it too I absolutely love shabari and I was on fetlife until a couple of months ago
 
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