Thoughts Dom / sub Quotes

Thalassa said:
Thank you for making your reply a whole lot of teachable moments.

P.S. (1) What pornographic pictures are you posting around here??? Dammit, how dare you! On a sex site? Where people show their tits, pussies, cocks, assholes in all variations? Where people make sexual innuendos and outright sexual comments? Shame on you! We've all joined this site for PG conversations and prude images of nuns and monks. How the fuck could you?!!!!. I'm so ashamed to have called you my big brother.

P.S. (2) Sooooooo... is your dick the size of Stephen's asspoking finger?? (We all know that the middle finger is the one used for ass play). Post a dick pic in one of your porno threads AND use it as an avatar, ok?
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P.S. (1) Re: ... i humbly apologize for my actions, i thought this was a sex based forum and perhaps I was mistaken. Please take me back as your big bro i promise to behave better than ..... well how about we just go with better

P.S. (1) Re: .. Actually i thought the thumb was the preferred method, at least when she is on all ..... nevermind :D, and but of course, in the form of so many around here, if I was gonna post a dic pic or use one as an avatar i would by all means google the biggest one i could find and call it mine ;)

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MistyBIue said:
You do NOT have to use whips, chains, ropes, etc. to know the soul of a person. What you have to do is spend your time getting to know them. Listening to them, making them trust you enough to open themselves up to you. You also have to be willing to do the same in return. Without trust, respect, etc., there is no relationship. You don't need to put a woman in ropes where she can't go take a piss for hours on end, just to satisfy your idea of how you get a woman to trust you, and open up to you. IF you give her respect, you should get it in return. It's not given freely, you have to earn it! I may have a dominating personality, but that comes from being an independent woman. I don't look to a man to support me, or, care for me. All I want from a man is for him to love me, and if he's not open to that possibility, then don't waste my time sunshine!

Anyway, this is jmo save your money on building your play room, and take the woman you love on a lovely long vacation somewhere, that the two of you can be alone, and truly get to find out if you two are "soulmates", or not. You don't need all this other "stuff", just do it!

tc,
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I'm not sure what caused you to post your thoughts in response to one of the quotes I shared. Honestly I don't really care. I wasn't going to respond, but you seem to know me so well based of what I post in one thread I thought I would add to your knowledge.

If you would have taken the time to see any of my other posts in this thread and the forum in general, you would realize I'm not into Dom/sub just because of ropes, chains, whips, handcuffs, etc. I believe the Dom/sub dynamic centers in the two individuals trusting each other. Knowing each other's ins and outs, likes and dislikes, desires, thoughts, fantasies, and yes kinks. It isn't solely centered on sex. In my humble opinion, any Dom/sub relationship centered on sex (a) isn't really a true Dom/sub relationship and (b) won't last. Rather I believe it is centered on trust and respect. Now do I like incorporating whips, ropes, chains, and other things at times in a Dom/sub dynamic, I absolutely do. It certainly isn't what I center it around.

Far too many people think the sub solely needs and desires the Dom. I think much the opposite. The Dom needs and wants the sub just as much as the sub needs and wants the Dom. This is what makes a Dom/sub dynamic so amazing. Both confiding in each other, trusting each other, doing things with each other which perhaps previously they both thought unimaginable. Letting go of your inhibitions, experiencing highs you never have before. Again it isn't all about sex. There must be communication, a connection, a bond. Only then can go those highs I speak of be reached.

While I'll admit a sex dungeon sounds like a glorious idea, none of what I've posted in this forum implies using a sex dungeon. Not really sure where you came up with that one.

Now let's get back to using this great thread for what it was intended.
 
First of all I wasn't replying to you, nor your posts.

I've already been on DnS myself, and know of people there some for years.

I was replying to whiskey, only to him. I made my remarks because if you read what was posted over again, you would see that most of what is accomplished using the dynamics of this said lifestyle, can be accomplishes without it. That was my point, and only point. What I got in replies was childish bullshit. Tantrums I would call them, because my remarks didn't go with the flow. They were the thoughts of someone who is open minded, but also see's how such things can hurt people. I have spoken with many members into this, I also was effective in getting rid of one new member who's sole intent was to line up naive young women to be his subs, out at his home, where he freely admitted to me here online, that he didn't care about the women. It was merely that they serve him. Basically unpaid house keepers. That would have no way to leave his home, without money to get them out of there when they realize his intent was not what they thought it was going to be. The thought he would make them his queen, and live a rich, wealthy lifestyle with him. I knew better, and had a stop put to him.

This is why this "lifestyle", can be dangerous to the unsuspecting "sub", that get's tangled up with a psychopath, not a well balanced human being! I'm not calling those in this fetish, kink,lifestyle, freaks. I'm simply saying that you don't need to have a label of any kind put on you to get to know someone, fall in love with them, and live happily ever after. smh Don't you get that? It's not that difficult to understand that it take respect, compromise, and understanding to find someone you can have a connection with, to be your SOUL mate k.

I'm really surprised how everyone with the help of whiskey had gone right off the deep end of my first post here. If this is a "members only", kind of post then say so, not that it would matter cause what would happen is, that Stan would tell you to start a conversation then so you could all discuss this in a private conversation. If you don't like the replies take it private. smh

Now please don't waste my time on this anymore, it wasn't meant to be an attack on this it was to an eye opener to the idea you don't have to be a hell's angel, nor a member of your local BDSM club to find a soulmate. wow fucking wow, K I'm going to relax now, while you folks try and see the light, whatever light that may be k Have fun, and carry on. smh

(I've had to deal with enough real life assholes today, defo didn't need this bullshit).....:rolleyes::cool:
 
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