Women don't have to do anything on social sites but be of the female gender. Honestly, I'm pretty sure 85% of the messages I get in chat are because my name appears in pink. It's quite sad for the male species that chat partners are selected on the assumption that they probably have a vagina.
Hey there, Delilah.

If you'd love to chat, I would suggest heading over to the chat rooms. You're likely to get messages without haste because your name will appear in pink.
Enjoy.