This is all amazing. I need to find a man and experience any of it for the first time. I’m married but secretly want an experience of another type.
Ok, let me break it down for ya, anal hurts when you have one or all of the following events occur: you're not in the mood/unsure/don't want to do it, you are not properly lubed up (and I will tell you you need a good amount of lube, I've had times where I had to tell my bottom at the time "baby, you're gonna wanna use more lube than that", and when I bottomed I used a fuck ton of lube, plus I love the feel of a cock sliding in and out with ease, and I like being able to slide in and out of a pussy/ass nice and easy, it turns me on just thinking about it), if your partner isn't gentle at first (specially the first time, my first time bottoming was with an older gay guy, he took his time, licked and sucked on my ass and caressed me, got me relaxed, sucked my cock, laid me down and slowly slid inside me working it in nice and gentle at first, which I returned that favor when we flip fucked), and if you are not relaxed. Anal can be wonderful, fuck it's one of my favorite things, right after vaginal sex, however I will say it is not for everyone, and if you try it, make sure you really want to try it, your partner is considerate and perceptive, and you lube up copiously, even in the middle of the act, if you like it and keep at it, once you get the hang of it it'll be magical. My last boyfriend and I gave each other quite a few anal orgasms. I also want to say I'm in no way an authority in the matter, this is just off of my own experience and the experience of my previous partners.
Wow. I have no doubt it will be amazing. I’ve been working my hole and stretching it w a dildo my wife has when she is out of town. I can take the entire thing now with enough lube as you said. I couldn’t imagine how great it would feel to have a real dick that is warm and pulsing rather than the dildo. Especially some balls slapping mine from behind and leaning over nibbling on my ear from behind.
