Confession I am obsessed

Are you obsessed with this site or sexual fantasy too?

  • Yes

  • No

  • May be

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I suppose I've a slight advantage in dealing with this through having a more general obsession with sex beyond FCN ("nymphomania", as my rage-inducingly overpaid therapist calls it), but if it can be kept under control, there's no shame whatsoever in it. Find ways to preoccupy yourself to draw away the temptation to obsessively check the site: go for a walk (leaving your phone at home, of course), pick up a hobby, watch a movie, or play a video game - to name but a few ways. The best also involve some form of mental exercise to sharpen the mind; a personal favourite of mine is to try and predict future arcs for my favourite film and TV series, which also helps me stay on track with my (boring) day job.

After the important stuff is done, treat yourself to "blowouts". Dedicate an hour or two per day to FCN, then go hog wild with your favourite fantasies. Getting into a long-term RP is a good way to do this, because it lets you fantasise and it gives you something to look forward to while waiting for the other participant(s) to post.
 
I would say yes. I enjoy many of the forums that are not necessarily about nudity. They can be fun. I do enjoy the forums revolving around pics as well and find myself checking them daily. Many beautiful people and beautiful bodies. Male and female( though I prefer female). I’m open to sharing my pics as well and not just being a voyeur. Not looking for any sort of a connection but have made a few cyber friends.
 
Shivorah said:
I suppose I've a slight advantage in dealing with this through having a more general obsession with sex beyond FCN ("nymphomania", as my rage-inducingly overpaid therapist calls it), but if it can be kept under control, there's no shame whatsoever in it. Find ways to preoccupy yourself to draw away the temptation to obsessively check the site: go for a walk (leaving your phone at home, of course), pick up a hobby, watch a movie, or play a video game - to name but a few ways. The best also involve some form of mental exercise to sharpen the mind; a personal favourite of mine is to try and predict future arcs for my favourite film and TV series, which also helps me stay on track with my (boring) day job.

After the important stuff is done, treat yourself to "blowouts". Dedicate an hour or two per day to FCN, then go hog wild with your favourite fantasies. Getting into a long-term RP is a good way to do this, because it lets you fantasise and it gives you something to look forward to while waiting for the other participant(s) to post.
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Thank you for the very honest and thoughtful and helpful response. I do wish I could "control" my consumption of this site and its rooms, but I have only been sporadically successful so far.
 
Abigail_S said:
Thank you for the very honest and thoughtful and helpful response. I do wish I could "control" my consumption of this site and its rooms, but I have only been sporadically successful so far.
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No problem. Happy to help.

It'll be hard to keep hold of the wheel the first few times, but one of the two keys to success in conquering an addiction is to be strict with yourself. Whenever you feel the urge to consume, step away from your device, take as many deep breaths as necessary to clear your mind, and then remind yourself (speaking out loud, if you must) that you mustn't feed the addiction. This is where distractions really come into clutch: keeping a funny cat video on your Favourites tab (for example) gives you something to click on should you start feeling the urge, serving as a get-of-jail-free button and diverting your mind's attention elsewhere.

The other key is motivation. Remind yourself that you're abstaining because your overconsumption is having an adverse effect on your quality of life, and if you hold your nerve, things will improve dramatically. If you take the blowout route I advised, then you have an additional shorter-term reward to focus on and treat yourself to for abstaining. Any motivation that suits you would work, but make sure it's positive (a reward for good behaviour) rather than negative (a punishment/forfeit).
 
Abigail_S said:
Ever since I created a profile on this site, I have been obsessively checking out the chat rooms, role play rooms and the forum every hour or so. I seem to be losing control over my mind, I am just drowning in sexual fantasy of so many kinds that I am horny most of the day, and night, without respite.
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I can’t get enough of this site love exploring the fantasies of others
 
I love the anonymity and exhibitionism of a site / format like this. As a man I am obviously very visually stimulated but I like the conversation / admissions / free exchange that happens here. It can be incredibly arousing to just type my deviant thoughts and know others might read them. I consider this site foreplay for my solo sessions.

I'm also a big fan of the photo threads!
 
Abigail_S said:
"Obsessed for now" is a very apt way to put it. I don't know when I will break from my obsessed state. But it is clear that I will also be back sooner or later.
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I have been a member for many years and when the lull comes I have fought coming back and either never fails. This place is somewhere our minds can go be who we are.
 
TZME said:
I can’t get enough of this site love exploring the fantasies of others
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I have been so busy exploring my own fantasies that I have not thought much about exploring other's fantasies. Thanks for bringing up this point. I will try to explore other's fantasies as well from now on.
 
Abigail_S said:
I have been so busy exploring my own fantasies that I have not thought much about exploring other's fantasies. Thanks for bringing up this point. I will try to explore other's fantasies as well from now on.
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Sometimes when you create the mindset of putting others first the pleasure is heightened for us as much as it is the person you are helping see out their fantasy
 
TZME said:
Sometimes when you create the mindset of putting others first the pleasure is heightened for us as much as it is the person you are helping see out their fantasy
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Wow! Spoken like a true mystique! Hit me up in the rooms sometime!
 
I don't know.. I was a little sexually obsessed before I came here, but I have a healthy sex life, a non-sexual social life that makes me happy and I can hold down a job, so.... even though I check this site often because my job is boring so.... what exactly are you asking?
 
Vickiinthegutter said:
I don't know.. I was a little sexually obsessed before I came here, but I have a healthy sex life, a non-sexual social life that makes me happy and I can hold down a job, so.... even though I check this site often because my job is boring so.... what exactly are you asking?
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Good for you. I can hold down a job as well, but over all my obsession starts taking over other healthy aspects of my life like exercise and meditation. To each his own.
 
I wouldn't say obsessed but I do get on daily just to piddly fart around.
 
Abigail_S said:
Ever since I created a profile on this site, I have been obsessively checking out the chat rooms, role play rooms and the forum every hour or so. I seem to be losing control over my mind, I am just drowning in sexual fantasy of so many kinds that I am horny most of the day, and night, without respite.
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At certain times I've been obsessed with the sexual fantasy of things going on the site. Other times I'm just looking to chat with women to help with my loneliness.
 
Not obsessed with visiting these kinds of sites. I like collecting kinky vanity email addresses or URLS like who.red is one I don't have. I collect bad words like fucking.works.
 
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