Confession I am obsessed

Are you obsessed with this site or sexual fantasy too?

  • Yes

  • No

  • May be

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DustyWranglerz said:
At certain times I've been obsessed with the sexual fantasy of things going on the site. Other times I'm just looking to chat with women to help with my loneliness.
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Yeah, I agree with the loneliness part. I feel like I'm trying to fill the emptiness of loneliness with frivolous fantasies. Its like trying suck water from rocks or to fill a water bucket with light.
 
Dogowar said:
When I started here, many, many moons ago. I initially used to just go into chat. Then I discovered the forums. I find it easier making connections in the forums than in chat so I tend to stay here predominantly.
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Having been on this site just a couple of weeks, I wholeheartedly agree. The Forums allow you to interject without feeling like an intruder. I am glad I discovered the forum because I was about to dismiss this site!
 
Call it naivety or stupidity.

I treat people on the internet, as real people.

Often leading to being under-appreciated.

(I think the world of them, making genuine gestures, only to realize, much more often than not, that I'm only a name in their life.)


And don't make me start on the negative side of things...
 
I am new to all of this online stuff and when I first entered the chat rooms I know I "stepped on some toes" or whatever. But I have done worse in my life. I am not concerned. Also my humor doesn't transmit well in written words. Plus I'm a recovering smart ass, so yeah, I got all that going for me today.
 
For me it started as a way to put more novelty and inspiration ins my writings for a sex game project. But yeah I then enjoyed making up RP maybe more than what is reasonnable...
But I guess it's a phase. I do tend to act like that. Explore a lot something before moving on. And fro me it's not to problematic with my job (hentai game let's player) and activities. I still do meditation, free dancing and stuff like that... I guess for now I think it's ok ^^'

Thank you for sharing so openly your vulnerability.
That's precious !
 
Sure yess, even when I m walking in the street I get a hard on just by thinking about the possibility that you would answer me...
 
Anything can become an obsession. Most people go and come back in a shorter time than they expected. Depending on the person, this place can bring out good (but also bad) things. I used to come here a lot more than I do now, and I feel like as time goes by its just not as electrifying(?) as it used to be.
 
SubSoph said:
Anything can become an obsession. Most people go and come back in a shorter time than they expected. Depending on the person, this place can bring out good (but also bad) things. I used to come here a lot more than I do now, and I feel like as time goes by its just not as electrifying(?) as it used to be.
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100% agree. After being here a few years I discovered that in recent months. And I noticed that I had been neglecting parts of my life with the amount of time I had been spending here.
 
Abigail_S said:
Ever since I created a profile on this site, I have been obsessively checking out the chat rooms, role play rooms and the forum every hour or so. I seem to be losing control over my mind, I am just drowning in sexual fantasy of so many kinds that I am horny most of the day, and night, without respite.
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I know. Since I first started chatting here with random people, I have realized that people are so open minded. Especially when I find someone who shares the same interests, fantasies, and fetishes, I find to be intriguing. I have open up myself to others comfortably, exchange ideas a lot, people get to know me, and I am starting to know myself better. I have developed a strong relationship with short and long term roleplay partners. I've been chatting, sex chatting, and roleplaying to satisfy each other's needs. It has been exciting, enjoyable to the point that I indulge and become so addicted. We all have our needs and I cannot avoid this sexual gratification. I am glad I'm not the only one.
 
Bennettrose said:
100% agree. After being here a few years I discovered that in recent months. And I noticed that I had been neglecting parts of my life with the amount of time I had been spending here.
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Yeah, totally, same here. I have been neglecting important parts of my real life for the sake of my fake life here. I feel like I have a spiritual need that I am trying to fill with fantasies and pretty much anything to keep the mind occupied.
 
Abigail_S said:
So far,
83% responded yes.
0% responded no.
17% responded may-be.

If we take half of the 17% then almost 90% responded yes. I understand that there is some self-selection going on here but still. Of the people to read the forums etc, 90% feel the obsession and compulsion! That's staggering!

I wish there were more open and honest conversations about the obsession, compulsion and addiction we all face.
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I can spend hours in role-play with right partner
 
SweetAlexandra said:
I am obsessed with this site. I got addicted to this site during the pandemic because I was not working. It was a very bad idea not having a job. I need to break away from this site but it is very hard. Eventually I will. Reality will hit me that I will have to start work again lol.

I am also obsessed with music.
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I second the music part as well as here. I love most music from the 40s till mid 2000.
Would you like to chat more about it?
 
With 300 votes, there will be a good deal of statistical significance to these numbers. May be this is not a bad place for running sex-related surveys.
 
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