1st point... in the poll there is no 'both' option... speaking as someone obsessed with the site and sexual fantasy...
2nd point... I have more friends here than i have in RL. Does that make me a sad looser? maybe in some peoples eyes, but for someone who finds making friends with people face to face difficult... lets just say i am happy with my life choices.
3rd point... this place is what you make it. sure you can perv at pictures if you like (of course i never ever spend more than two or three hours studying certain ladies pfps) or you can talk to people, help them with problems, let them help you, read some amazing literature, share memories of favoured musical tracks, listen to original music created by the poster, or just have a really good giggle with some of the nicest people.