Confession I am obsessed

Are you obsessed with this site or sexual fantasy too?

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  • May be

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I'm glad I'm not the only one who is obsessed with this site. Its great that we can chat and flirt with strangers. Its awoken a deep sexual need that i thought had disappeared lol
 
Sometimes I feel disgusted with myself for having these fantasies. Sometimes I can't understand why do I even pay attention to these fantasies. I have gone without them for months at a time so I can live without them, clearly. But in moments of weakness, I end up fantasizing and soon enough I land on this site again to play them out with other people. And when I am in the throes of it, I don't know how to live without the fantasies. Am I bipolar?
 
I once thought of it like this too.
Though not just in term of fantasies,
It can happen in other scenarios too.
Maybe not bipolar, but just giving into the temptations, falling for the (even if just self-imposed) forbidden nature of it. Which seems a lot more common.
 
Abigail_S said:
Not just in terms of fantasies? What else is there?
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Honestly, fantasies, and masturbation (for those people who think abstinence works better for them) , are the two things which are relatively okayish, as far as I can think of, as of now.

The other, worse things are like smoking, gambling, drinking (unchecked) , etc... being on a whole different level as compared to fantasies.
 
Fukcster said:
Honestly, fantasies, and masturbation (for those people who think abstinence works better for them) , are the two things which are relatively okayish, as far as I can think of, as of now.

The other, worse things are like smoking, gambling, drinking (unchecked) , etc... being on a whole different level as compared to fantasies.
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Agreed.
 
I just read the other day about apples new googles and thought. Gosh, that’s really going to be a thing feeding dopamine.

I’m sometimes a bit afraid of the spiral I’m in, needing more and more dopamine. I love the excitement and the talented writers here but what happens if this becomes a bigger kick than real life?

I believe some kind of escapism is good for your mental but when is it becoming dangerous?
 
David_runner said:
I just read the other day about apples new googles and thought. Gosh, that’s really going to be a thing feeding dopamine.


I’m sometimes a bit afraid of the spiral I’m in, needing more and more dopamine. I love the excitement and the talented writers here but what happens if this becomes a bigger kick than real life?


I believe some kind of escapism is good for your mental but when is it becoming dangerous?
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Been in that spiral and gone nuts once due to it.

It gets bad when you feel more comfortable online than with real life loved ones. When you Yearn for that one message from that someone you think of special. When the guy (or gal) who's the general role model becomes your most hostile critic and his words make you sad/depressed/vengeful/murderous/psychopathic-level enraged. When you start overthinking the smallest things said or done. When you fall out with the closest of friends online, and it feels equivalent to losing someone important in real life. When you... sorry, I got carried away...
 
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Abigail_S said:
Ever since I created a profile on this site, I have been obsessively checking out the chat rooms, role play rooms and the forum every hour or so. I seem to be losing control over my mind, I am just drowning in sexual fantasy of so many kinds that I am horny most of the day, and night, without respite.
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I find myself taking breaks in between long stretches of obsession. Sometimes I stop for a while but I always come back; staying for longer than I was gone.
 
What you’re all writing is very interesting to me, I’ve visited forum every day for a week, I like chatting and doing what I do, bumbling around and hanging out. It is addictive on forum side, the little notifs and messages from kind people, it’s a stark contrast to the chatroom side for sure.

It takes my mind off real life for a bit. I just said in a message to someone;

FCN takes your mind off real life and real life takes your mind off of FCN.

Am I dopamine chaser? I don’t know. Am I addicted? Equally I’m not sure. But I have strict rules for myself that FCN is a laptop thing and not a phone thing so I have some sort of boundary, I suppose?

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(I hope you see what I did there)
 
nylonlvr said:
Welcome to FCN, isn't that just what fantasies are for, you're not losing control of mind, being horny MOST of the day is good, SO good, even to the older guys ( me included )
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Well said buddy and if I may point out, we are actually really good people and treat everyone with kindness and we can't be perfect, if being horny and wanting to help a beautiful lady feel good is a flaw then I'll take it over what alot of not so good folks are obsessed with so I'm good with it
 
I jus found this site and have been looking for something like this for a while. I'm overly sexually and extremely under sexed. Sex is on my mind 24/7. Looking 4 subs or women needing it as bad as I do and now that I found this in hoping to relieve some tension. Sometimes it feels like I'm about to explode.
 
Abigail_S said:
So far,
83% responded yes.
0% responded no.
17% responded may-be.

If we take half of the 17% then almost 90% responded yes. I understand that there is some self-selection going on here but still. Of the people to read the forums etc, 90% feel the obsession and compulsion! That's staggering!

I wish there were more open and honest conversations about the obsession, compulsion and addiction we all face.
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This site showed me the opportunity to be part of myself in a very good and kinky way. I have fantasies about cocks and I have a very strong desire to be fucked.
 
I am visiting fcn off and on for about 10 years now, but strictly chats and I never had username before.

I am happilly married for 3 years and I haven't visited since before the pandemic, but maybe 6 months ago I started again and I told my wofe about it. She was upset and we went through the usual "why, am I not good enough for u etc." and after awhile we talked, got over it and we even came here few times together but she doesn't like it much... She told me visit as much as u like just don't tell me about it, I don't wanna know. So I continued coming alone and oh boy am I addicted lately, especially since I started visiting the forum in the last couple of months.

I totally get what u mean it is so addictive it is almost annoying.

P.S I would love to rp with u are down for it :)
 
Abigail_S said:
Ever since I created a profile on this site, I have been obsessively checking out the chat rooms, role play rooms and the forum every hour or so. I seem to be losing control over my mind, I am just drowning in sexual fantasy of so many kinds that I am horny most of the day, and night, without respite.
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You still obsessed with this site and your sexual fantasies?
 
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