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Silver_Smile

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Ok, so I was born and raised religious. Same sex and interracial stuff is told to me as forbidden and wrong. Don't do it.

However. From being on here...well the chat rooms, I get a lot of stuff sent to me. And a few times I see a pic and it affects me. Sexually. And I get aroused...however, a few times, it's been of women. I don't want to get aroused but I do. It's like my body betrays me. I don't know...
Then it plants thoughts in my head...not like "oh I wanna do this sexually to her" or anything like that...but rather I wish I was her and thus wanted and desired.
I'm super skinny and have like zero chest. I'm an "A" cup...I don't wear a lot of makeup and don't own a lot of revealing clothes. My shorts like the most revealing things I own.

My question... Does this make me I don't know, bi sexual? Cause my body reacts to the pics?

Now side note... I have asked guys to post pics of girls, without them knowing that I want to be aroused by them so I don't feel guilty for pleasuring myself to them cause I like how I feel looking at them and pleasing myself. (The pictures of the girls).

Does this validate my "bi" nature? I don't know, I'm confused.

I'm not sexual experienced...only made out, touched and went down on a handful of guys. Never a girl.

Don't have anyone else I can talk to about this so any insight is helpful. And obviously I mean NO disrespect to anyone LGBT. I'm just trying to figure stuff out. Thanks
 
Thanks Stanthropical... I get teased a lot... For being small, and little in my physical features. I get labeled a lot as is. It sucks and it's hard to escape. Recently got braces, just added to labels and being teased. I try to make best of it but it sucks. So I get labels thrown at me everyday from every which way. I don't know what to believe or think or feel. It's confusing.
 
Don’t listen to all the negative people. If they are throwing insults/ labels at you it just suggests that they don’t feel great about themselves either.
Like Stan says just do what feels right for you.
As long as you aren’t hurting anyone else (without their permission) just enjoy the experiences :)
 
Thisngs will become easier to deal with as you mature. None of those things will matter just a little later in life.
 
Religious upbringing can do that to a person. Just because you are aroused by the female body doesn't make you abnormal by any means. All I can say is basically echo what Stan and Jinxy have already said, be true to who you are, whatever that may be. Do not conform to anyone's standard of what is normal, be the normal, be you. I too grew up in a religious background and had TONS of questions and found out much later that no matter how much I tried, I couldn't escape who I was. So embrace it, ask questions, test out your arousals and learn more about your inhibitions. Most of all don't be scared, be thrilled to find out all these new things you never knew, you never knew... I totally stole that last part from a Pocahontas song, but it totally fits the convo! Happy Typing!;)
 
Check out who you are see how you like things, and just be you. ImI bi, but my nature is more towards women. There is nothing wrong with how you are. My best thoughts that you get things figured out. I've been figuring myself out longer than you've been alive, it's been a ride :P

Know yourself and enjoy yourself :)

Say hi if you ever want to, either way be well.
 
Bisexuality is much more than being affected by some pictures, Silver :). You don't have to label yourself, especially if you're unsure. Understanding and acknowledging your own sexuality is a personal process. It might be just a phase at your age. My opinion is that education and personal experience in the real world are the first steps in helping yourself to evaluate who you really are, in time.
 
I want to jump in here and tell you, I'm 48 years old and I'm only a 34a cup. Being a twin, my sister and I used to joke that we had to share one pair of breasts between us. Neither of us are large chested, and I've always worn a padded bra to look bigger. For years it bothered me and I was embarrassed, but trust me - you will feel a LOT better about yourself if you just accept who you are and not worry about appearances.
I also explored a bit with another female in college - haven't for a long time, but have the same sensual feelings when I think about being with another female again. Enjoy your body and learn what you do and don't like. You only get this one life to life, so live it to the fullest.
 
Silver_Smile said:
...but rather I wish I was her and thus wanted and desired.
I'm super skinny and have like zero chest. I'm an "A" cup...I don't wear a lot of makeup and don't own a lot of revealing clothes. My shorts like the most revealing things I own.
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Beyond simple objectification, femininity and sexual desirability (to me, at least) have much more to do with the woman's personality and behavior than her cup size. It's the woman inside who makes her body attractive.
 
Well id say ur not bi because that would mean that you want to sexually interact with women and men as well and second i can just say i dont believe in god but if there is one he surely didnt give u life to endure it but to make the best of it so just do whatever makes you feel good as long as you dont harm others its ok. Lifes to short to let things skip and feel bad for something

And the next thing is: you are the only one who needs to like your body, if someone else dislikes you just because of your looks they arent even worth a word of yours.
 
Silver_Smile said:
Ok, so I was born and raised religious. Same sex and interracial stuff is told to me as forbidden and wrong. Don't do it.

However. From being on here...well the chat rooms, I get a lot of stuff sent to me. And a few times I see a pic and it affects me. Sexually. And I get aroused...however, a few times, it's been of women. I don't want to get aroused but I do. It's like my body betrays me. I don't know...
Then it plants thoughts in my head...not like "oh I wanna do this sexually to her" or anything like that...but rather I wish I was her and thus wanted and desired.
I'm super skinny and have like zero chest. I'm an "A" cup...I don't wear a lot of makeup and don't own a lot of revealing clothes. My shorts like the most revealing things I own.

My question... Does this make me I don't know, bi sexual? Cause my body reacts to the pics?

Now side note... I have asked guys to post pics of girls, without them knowing that I want to be aroused by them so I don't feel guilty for pleasuring myself to them cause I like how I feel looking at them and pleasing myself. (The pictures of the girls).

Does this validate my "bi" nature? I don't know, I'm confused.

I'm not sexual experienced...only made out, touched and went down on a handful of guys. Never a girl.

Don't have anyone else I can talk to about this so any insight is helpful. And obviously I mean NO disrespect to anyone LGBT. I'm just trying to figure stuff out. Thanks
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Do what you feel is right or experiment.
 
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