As there is never you women, there is never you men.
That's your first mistake. You men sounds even bad. You seem to have many bad guy experience, when you say something like this.
As every woman is beautiful in her own way, as any woman have their own spots you need to find, it's the same with every men. We are individuals and special in our own ways. Finding the right way is always a journey of lust and pleasure. You just have to explore every inch from the outside and the inside. It's a journey to find the right spots. But the journey is worth it.