I think I’m Bi

[Staceyreynaxo]

Hey there!

So I’m in a relationship with a guy and the sex is great but I think I’m also attracted to women. I have made out with a couple of girls drunk and I watch lesbian porn when I masturbate. So I think I’m bi?? Today I was watching a show where the couple was a lesbian couple and I got really wet. So I’m not sure if it’s actual feelings and or sexual fantasy.

 

[Busty_Nerd]

Sexuality can be a very complicated thing and struggling to find a label when you don't know is scary, but you will never know till you date someone of the same sex. I don't think watching lesbian porn is a good indicator of being bisexual just because it is just sexual fantasy and has nothing to do with actually being bisexual and living as a bisexual. It's totally fine to just want to have sex with women, but not really want to date them, which wouldn't make you bisexual. But only you would know if you were bisexual or not, and you don't have to date someone to know for sure. Me and other people on this forum who give advice couldn't tell you whether you were bisexual. I wouldn't dump your current partner to experiment though, if you think you're bisexual then you're bisexual and it doesn't change anything. Being bisexual is great! But you get to come out on your own terms.