Seems like they all trying to sell pics or get you on some crap cam site... So annoying!
For myself and I'd guess a lot of people, it's this.So I'm interested to know what's the attraction? There are thousands of porn/cam/pics on the net. I like my share of porn don't get me wrong but never been into cam nor pics of anyone I've ever chatted with (or partners come to that)... so what's the attraction? Is it the interaction?
Kik is notorious for scammers btw![]()
Thanks for that. I guess I get off more on visuals in my own head or in a written word. I always preferred sex chat (when I did it in the past) when I couldn't see the person in front of me and my mind conjured up what I would like to see. Maybe it's a female thing or maybe it's just me *shrugs*For myself and I'd guess a lot of people, it's this.
With porn, as good as it is, you're completely detached from it. Cam/kik/cyber/whatever you are playing with and teasing each other.
Knowing someone else is getting off to what you are sending/saying is a nice empowering feeling and is horny in itself.
that is why I prefer erotic novelsThanks for that. I guess I get off more on visuals in my own head or in a written word. I always preferred sex chat (when I did it in the past) when I couldn't see the person in front of me and my mind conjured up what I would like to see. Maybe it's a female thing or maybe it's just me *shrugs*
Got ninja'd but I don't think it's just you. Women are the main target of erotic novels because us dudes prefer visual.Thanks for that. I guess I get off more on visuals in my own head or in a written word. I always preferred sex chat (when I did it in the past) when I couldn't see the person in front of me and my mind conjured up what I would like to see. Maybe it's a female thing or maybe it's just me *shrugs*
See that's where we differ. I use porn simply for a quick bedtime shuffle, orgasm being the best relaxant I know. Or if I'm feeling naughty in the day and there's nobody home I may knock out a quick one to it. Other than that I could just as easily be watching Newsnight or Homes under the Hammer. I don't get the lonely thing through sex, it would be more on an emotional level. That's the reason I don't sex chat, if there's no emotional connection someone could just as easy be reading me War & Peace... *yawn*After watching porn you may still feel lonely, or more lonely. Interaction is the appeal I think. I’ve never used Kim or the like, but years ago my ex and I used to use a chat forum like this. Men don’t need interaction but it does make it less depressing![]()