Advice and Opinion Is it cheating.....

[LadyStar]

You don't have to be married to cheat smh

Any long term relationship, and common law marriages are vulnerable to cheating.

If all you want is to get laid, then yeah stay single, if one night stands are your thing.

I prefer a marriage as a show of loyalty, sadly we all know that can be a challenge for some. But, at least if two adults are willing to take the plunge, I would hope it would stand a better time of lasting a life time(however long that may be).

 

[Lakeside]

I see that you are unaware that being single does not mean it has to be a succession of 1 night stands.

I often date a guy for months before deciding I like him sufficiently to consider something of a sexual nature between us.

I can also choose remain exclusively with that man for as long as we agree, a day, a week, a month or a year, but I never stop being single, regardless of what is decided to be mutually acceptable between us.

Ls x

 

[OhLongJohnson]

Is it cheating if your wife/husband just stops having sex?

I mean at some point, you have to make a call. The longer you are married, the harder it is to divorce. Kids, finances, houses, retirement, etc.

This being the case....Should a spouse expect sexual loyalty and for the other to go without?

Your thoughts are appreciated. Let's discuss.

If you have a spouse that has cut you off there's really only one reason.

Husband - He's already going deep inside some other woman and leaving the nuts hanging out.

Wife - She's got some other dude going deep inside the suger walls and ya sweet walls have been desecrated.

That's about all there is to say on this subject.

 

[Curvy_Luscious]

I apologize, but I think you misunderstood. The scenario is...you are married, your spouse decides to stop having sex with you, and you go have sex with another person. Is that cheating?

well i don't think its cheating ..afterall everyone has a right to fulfill their desires and if you are not getting it in your marriage ..its your right to get your body satisfy elsewhere ..for example if you are hungry and there is no food at home then ? you will go buy some eatables from the market ...same rule applies for this body hunger

 

[whybother123]

As a man in the situation of OP, I have come to my own arbitrary conclusion that I will never physically touch another woman, but I have been less than faithful online. I have had fun with messaging and chatting but I keep it to stoking my own cock.

I do not believe that I am entitled to sex.

I’m happy to explain if anyone is interested.

 

[Sarah_56]

I think cheating is a betrayal of trust however that manifests: a clear sign being a need to conceal or lie about it. I convinced myself that sex without relationship was not cheating but my husband disagreed - with added justification due to the secrets I kept and the lies I told. For me it would have been the other way around but I don't get to choose: I lied, therefore I cheated.

 

[Karen59]

well i don't think its cheating ..afterall everyone has a right to fulfill their desires and if you are not getting it in your marriage ..its your right to get your body satisfy elsewhere ..for example if you are hungry and there is no food at home then ? you will go buy some eatables from the market ...same rule applies for this body hunger

If you are hiding it from your partner, it is still cheating. It is a betrayal of trust. If you are open about it and your partner knows you are having sex with others, then it is not cheating. You are then in an open relationship. If you feel that you must have sex and your partner can't or won't meet your needs, then you should discuss it with your partner and consider a divorce.

My husband and I do not have sex. He no longer gets aroused or excited, and though he is willing to get me off, most of my excitement was in pleasing him. We have talked about it. He feels guilty, but he knows I still love him. We love each other and both want to stay in our marriage. We have discussed an open marriage, but he is afraid I will get attached to someone and leave him. I know it would be very traumatic for him.

I am still the slut he married, so get myself off regularly, with a lots of help from folks here. My husband knows I get off online and is okay with that, at least in concept. He is still hurt if I am on here too much... and I still feel myself getting attached to people, even with virtual sex, even when playing someone I am not. I don't share any details of my activities here with my husband and do not share my account or password with him. I would be embarrassed to have him see my conversations, but then I have never shared all of my sexual thoughts or fantasies with someone I loved.