Slow your roll, pussy slayer. Everyone is as real as ever was—humans weren't replaced by robots.
Before anyone chooses to play with you, what do you even have to offer? What's on the other side? Before anyone gets involved with you, they're concerned for their safety and dignity. What assurances do you have?
There are maybe five men for every one woman on internet (specifically on websites for adults only)—this will never change—what mates you stand out? Same stats are true everywhere.
Yes, it's a competition and not everyone is looking for the same thing. A dick is not a replacement for a personality and also vice-versa is true, depending on someone's individual needs.