One thing I have found since coming here is that people like bodies of all shapes and sizes.
So just make sure you like yours and don’t worry about what others think.
Nothing wrong with being fit or healthy. But you do that for YOU, no one else. And killing yourself at the gym is not always the best way to stay fit and healthy. I don't have the perfect body, trust me lol. But I'm fit....I can run someone's ass down in no time. I'm healthy Bcus I'm not really into fried foods, prefer grilled. And my hobbies keep me fit. Like my horses, and white water rafting, hiking...stuff like that....just do YOU! Main thing, stay healthy,!
Having a good body is admirable as it takes hard work and dedication to achieve but what fun is it if you won't let go now and again? One night eating shit isn't gonna do any harm at all and eating just lettuce and kale is doing more harm than good.
personally its much more attractive to actually like the person you are talking to, not just like looking at them... eventually looking at them wont be enough, and you will actually need a conversation lol and if you have only been really interested in their looks you prob wont last long together anyways... but that's my opinion im sure it could be different for many
Do it for health, but if a guy needs a gym to body - wrong guy - dump him.
as for me, I love women in all shapes and sizes, provided they are kind hearted and intelligent