It hurts to be called a JUMPER

Jane29

Jane29

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All scenarios happened to me here. Sorry it's long. Hope you enjoy reading

Scenario 1:
you are so into someone, then that someone left for several days without a word. A day alone feels like hell. Then as you stay online someone gives you attention, but you make it very clear that you are taken so it's all a decent casual chat. That someone starts feeling deeply for you and still no word from that someone you are really into. With a feeling of longing and no words from that someone special at all, how would you take all the attention the other one is giving?

*for me it's like "oh wow no one gave me this much care. I feel so special with her, but i need to talk to my special someone about this

Scenario 2:
Your special someone comes back online and explains what happens, and you realize you really do love her even if she doesn't give you as much attention as the other. Then this special someone of yours leaves again for three days she said without a word. The other person who loves comes back online. Chats you and tells you she'll wait till you fall and she'll catch you. How would you react?

* Damn it! Why does it have to be so hard. Why does she have to leave without a word. I'm hurting someone who cares for me and it feels like crap. Others try to chat me and calls me stupid for being loyal for someone who keeps leaving without a word. I guess i was so stupidly in love. I started falling for the one who cares for me

Scenario 3:
5 days still no word from her and the one you started falling for disappears too. You keep online just in case she returns. You chat with others casually, someone catches your attention because they chat the same way as the that someone. Then you realize damn it, "i think i'm being fooled by the same person over and over" how would you react?

*Duh i went crazy angry. Lmao. Then you realize well i guess everyone here will just make you fall and drop you. Then you start to just chat casually with others, then i get to be called "A JUMPER" WOW!!! She don't know what crap i went through.

Realization: you stay loyal, you look stupid because she ain't comin back. You don't take things seriously just yet, you'll be called a JUMPER right away. VERY NICE! :)
 
I am sorry your heart is in such a turmoil. I've never been able to get that close to people on-line. On-line friends, as much as I love them, I need that personal face-to-face time to really get into someone. I know on-line relationships are hugely popular and growing. Its the 'screen' age now where having some form of phone/tablet/PC screen in your view has become as much a part of many people's lives as breathing. I grew up before there was an internet and the equivalent of 'on-line' relationships back then were 'pen-pals'. I still view on-line friends as 'pen-pals' because all we do is write back and forwards due to the distances involved. I don't have a solution to your issue unfortunately. I've always been a believer in trusting my instincts and that is my advice to you, trust yours.
 
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about it. I guess I'm new to all these, my friends and people i get to be in a relationship with are all in person. Never been interested in online things. And you're right. i'm learning things. :)
 
This is my first online experience too. I fell for someone, found out i was being played. But then things came to light after i came out as trans* male. And the person playing me was also trans*male, but too scared to come forward for fear of rejection and harassment.

Our relationship grew after he was able to open up and be more comfortable about who he is. He doesn't come on chat anymore. We stick to mostly kik and snapchat. Yet i still find myself waiting for him to sign into chat to talk lol.
 
Freakishhottie said:
This is my first online experience too. I fell for someone, found out i was being played. But then things came to light after i came out as trans* male. And the person playing me was also trans*male, but too scared to come forward for fear of rejection and harassment.

Our relationship grew after he was able to open up and be more comfortable about who he is. He doesn't come on chat anymore. We stick to mostly kik and snapchat. Yet i still find myself waiting for him to sign into chat to talk lol.
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Thanks for sharing. i find myself doing that everyday, checking to see if she's in. Lol
 
I just read your post, That makes me so sad, I just wanna bring you all the good snacks! Take this with a grain of salt But always try to keep some self confidence, it will get you furthan than you might think, I have no doubt you will fine some sweet ass people on here! ( I know my reply was a bit generic :/)
 
Gnome said:
I just read your post, That makes me so sad, I just wanna bring you all the good snacks! Take this with a grain of salt But always try to keep some self confidence, it will get you furthan than you might think, I have no doubt you will fine some sweet ass people on here! ( I know my reply was a bit generic :/)
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Hey Gnome, thanks for your thoughts. I appreciate it. You're right, there's a bunch of great people especially in the singles chat room. Very welcoming. Happy New Year to you! :)
 
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