While I was raised to know my place sometimes things just happen and then it's too late. I'm 19 and was out with my "Friend" who is 53 and on the Dominant side which is fine with me, Men need to be men not wimps. From the first second we met it was clear to me that he was in charge and he told me to obey or i'd pay for it which I usually do without a problem. Most times I just react, he tells me to do something and before i even realize it, I'm doing as he said for which I am rewarded. When we go out he chooses what I will, or won't wear, which is usually a skirt and top or a dress with nothing underneath which he says is how all females should dress to show respect to their man. Most times things are great but this one time we were over his friends house for a BBQ and he told me to do something and for some unknown reason my body didn't just respond as it usually does and even my brain was asking it what are you doing? As I stood there I could hear his friends kidding him how I didn't obey and just then I felt him grab me almost tearing my skirt off me as he put me over his knee. I knew not to struggle or it would just be worse so I just laid there with my bare bum high in the air for all to see as I heard the air being sliced as his hand came down onto my bare bum over and over again until it felt like it was on fire. All I could do was lay there and cry as everyone watch me being punished for my bad behavior until he finished teaching me my lesson. Once he did he told me to stand up and walk over to each person there, still naked from the waist down, and apologize to them for my behavior which I did, everyone was so nice accepting my apology. Once I did that my friend told me that I had embarrassed him in front of his friends so I could spend the rest of the party standing in a corner thinking over what I did. As he pointed to where I should stand he again said that I had embarrassed him so for that I was to remove my top anyone else who would come in would know i was being punished. It seems i had learned my lesson because as soon as he said that my body reacted as my hand quickly removed my top and hurried over to the corner where he had pointed too. For the next 2 plus hours I stood there quietly not moving listening to everyone having fun as I stood there facing the corner as I was told to do, it was so embarrassing but I knew it was my own fault. While I have been punished before this was the first time I was punished in front of so many people, both men and women so it was something I don't want to happen again and try very hard so t won't. ..... wish me luck