Thank you for putting me right.
But several of my gay friends hate the queer word
I did look up the terms as they arn't used by anyone I know but your right they do exist so I will apologise
Back in the day it was used in a derogatory way. So was the word lesbian. I have friends that despise the word lesbian and refuse to call themselves it. It all depends on generation and experience. Its a completely different world we live in today.