Hi Ashbadgirl,
I personally don’t use the app. I’m an older DaddyDom taking care of my Princess and our Kitten.
I use group text for tasks (for both to do at the same time or individually), FaceTime or Zoom. Some tasks are regular and re occurring eg both wear balls Mon, Wed and Fri while at work.
I work away from home up to 5 weeks at a time so reward is taking them away for weekend getaways when I’m back home on my time off.
I give tasks with an end goal. My girls don’t know what that is until it is reached so it keeps them guessing and fully engaged.
Punishment for each is different as one fears the belt and one loves the belt!
Punishment, after care, boundaries and rewards have all been discussed and agreed upon before we started our dynamic. I could go on and on but hope this gives you an idea as to what can be accomplished with out an app. If you would like to know more or have other questions message me anytime.