Explain your feelings to your husband and come to a solution, it's better than having a loveless relationship for years
my best advice is to experiment 1 time and see how your feeling will turn and your reaction. sometime people are scare to move forward or afraid of people reaction i thing it not a good thing to hold feeling inside well sometime it good to not get in trouble specialy when you like to speak your mind but for attirance and desire i thing that important to express yourself or discovered your true you