My wife knows I'm a bi crossdresser. She's not too happy about it, but it's not a dealbreaker. Someone on this site has basically told me to divorce because she's not fully accepting, but I'm thinking over time she will allow me some occasional freedom to experience the glory of men. I have repeatedly mentioned how I would like to be with a man (or woman) outside our marriage. I have encouraged us fantasizing about being other people. As I'm writing this, I wonder if I could get her to pretend to be a man during sex? Sounds good to me.