My gf mom is about 57 years old. She is black. I am white. Like my gf is, she is a very large full bodied, and super busty woman. She is basically a lesbian. Not butch but not a femm either. She only had kids because it's expected of her in her family. She is the matriarch of A matriarchal family. In her family, the women have all the power. Men are basically there for company and having babies. She lives in the deep south on basically a plantation her family has owned since forever. They hire many local black people to work for them on the farm and as maids and whatever is needed since the family has owned the plantation. Their family is very well respected in the black community. In her area, it is not a good idea for her to be associating with white people. I mean talking to them doing business is one thing. Befriending them is another. So, she does not have much contact with white people other than white men she has to do business with. It is a cordial relationship but she is very distrustful and cautious around white people. And she actually has very little contact with white women at all. We are almost exotic to her.
Earlier in the year, her long time gf suddenly died. Out of loneliness she came up to the NYC area where my gf and I and a few other family members live. She knows her daughter and I are a couple. She does not approve of it and lets my gf know it but otherwise she doesn't try to stop it. I have never met her before this year. My gf was raised by her nanny way more than her mother. So her and her mother are more like big sisters than mother daughter. In regards to this I am telling you, it basically means, they compare notes with each other about the women they date. My gf likes to be raunchy and embarrass her mom with what she tells her. Her mom says just as much but more ladylike and respectful. My gf is super dominant and we live that lifestyle. So, some of the things she tells her mother she does with me, makes her mother somewhat uncomfortable. because her mom is actually very vanilla. More than my gf and I being really wild. Her mom is obviously dominant too but more in a "in charge" type of way than a sexual one. So she has a hard time understanding our lifestyle. She will chastise my gf and ask why we do the things we do. But she never tells my gf not to tell her these things. She just sort of pretends its upsetting but still wants to hear it. My gf and her mom have dated the same women at different times. Just never at the same time before. Of course, all of them were black.
When I met her mom earlier this year, her mom was super cold to me, almost dismissive. She is used to being obeyed but she also is used to avoiding white people. Amd a white woman younger then her, she has no idea at ahow to handle that. I think she just didn't know how to behave around me. But it was also apparent from what she told my gf, her mom was super horny. She wouldn't say she was horny. Thats not her southern upbringing style. She would say she is lonely or ask innocent questions about the women up here where we live. My gf knowing her mom well, knew this for signs she was horny. LOL. Anyway, my gf started putting me and her mom in situations where we had to be alone together. I think just to break the ice. In the month that her mom was up here, she gradually started to thaw toward me to the point where we could have basic conversations. And she even got a tiny bit flirty with me a few times. After she left, my gf told me her mom started asking questions about what it's like to be with a white woman? How are they different in anyway you can imagine. All sorts of things without ever mentioning my name. The only time she ever said anything was her commenting on how tiny I am compared to them and isn't my gf afraid of hurting me? Because she had never been with a woman close to my size. I am 5'4" 120 lbs so I am not tiny but just much smaller. But I Was the only white woman she was in everyday contact with when she was up here so who else could be sparking these questions? She even asked to say hello to me a few times and we had several nice convos while she was on the phone. And e-mail.
My gf said that her mom was clearly at least curious about me. And now she has me fantasizing about her mom. Her mom made sure to tell me she would be up again for a visit before the end of the year and she wanted to get to know me better and was sorry she was so cold to me the last time. I don't think that my gf has any problem with me and her mom. I suspect they have spoken far more about me than my gf has said also. Because somethings have slipped. For my birthday, her mom got me a nice bra and panty set that fit me perfectly for example. How would a woman that has breasts the size of watermelons know what the right size of bra a woman with little "B" cups would ware. LOL.
Earlier in the year, her long time gf suddenly died. Out of loneliness she came up to the NYC area where my gf and I and a few other family members live. She knows her daughter and I are a couple. She does not approve of it and lets my gf know it but otherwise she doesn't try to stop it. I have never met her before this year. My gf was raised by her nanny way more than her mother. So her and her mother are more like big sisters than mother daughter. In regards to this I am telling you, it basically means, they compare notes with each other about the women they date. My gf likes to be raunchy and embarrass her mom with what she tells her. Her mom says just as much but more ladylike and respectful. My gf is super dominant and we live that lifestyle. So, some of the things she tells her mother she does with me, makes her mother somewhat uncomfortable. because her mom is actually very vanilla. More than my gf and I being really wild. Her mom is obviously dominant too but more in a "in charge" type of way than a sexual one. So she has a hard time understanding our lifestyle. She will chastise my gf and ask why we do the things we do. But she never tells my gf not to tell her these things. She just sort of pretends its upsetting but still wants to hear it. My gf and her mom have dated the same women at different times. Just never at the same time before. Of course, all of them were black.
When I met her mom earlier this year, her mom was super cold to me, almost dismissive. She is used to being obeyed but she also is used to avoiding white people. Amd a white woman younger then her, she has no idea at ahow to handle that. I think she just didn't know how to behave around me. But it was also apparent from what she told my gf, her mom was super horny. She wouldn't say she was horny. Thats not her southern upbringing style. She would say she is lonely or ask innocent questions about the women up here where we live. My gf knowing her mom well, knew this for signs she was horny. LOL. Anyway, my gf started putting me and her mom in situations where we had to be alone together. I think just to break the ice. In the month that her mom was up here, she gradually started to thaw toward me to the point where we could have basic conversations. And she even got a tiny bit flirty with me a few times. After she left, my gf told me her mom started asking questions about what it's like to be with a white woman? How are they different in anyway you can imagine. All sorts of things without ever mentioning my name. The only time she ever said anything was her commenting on how tiny I am compared to them and isn't my gf afraid of hurting me? Because she had never been with a woman close to my size. I am 5'4" 120 lbs so I am not tiny but just much smaller. But I Was the only white woman she was in everyday contact with when she was up here so who else could be sparking these questions? She even asked to say hello to me a few times and we had several nice convos while she was on the phone. And e-mail.
My gf said that her mom was clearly at least curious about me. And now she has me fantasizing about her mom. Her mom made sure to tell me she would be up again for a visit before the end of the year and she wanted to get to know me better and was sorry she was so cold to me the last time. I don't think that my gf has any problem with me and her mom. I suspect they have spoken far more about me than my gf has said also. Because somethings have slipped. For my birthday, her mom got me a nice bra and panty set that fit me perfectly for example. How would a woman that has breasts the size of watermelons know what the right size of bra a woman with little "B" cups would ware. LOL.
