Does she feel comfortable with herself and her body? You said you bought her some nice sexy things, but did you surprise it on her and she felt uncomfortable? Does she know how you feel about your suppressed fantasies? Does she read or watch romance books or shows? If so, there might be a hallmark fantasy that could get spicy in the sheets. She sounds conservative and her sexual desires have been calmed. That is 100% ok and i am sure she's a loving woman. Be open and honest with your feelings and desire to please her and be pleaed. Start slowly again and talk it through with each other. Nothing has to be perfect, and it will never be exactly how you fantasized it. Hope for the best in your relationship.I’m just curious, Eve after a couple of years together she’s still says she isn’t interested in something in particular, no dirty talk, no fantasies. Have you ever been in a similar situation with your partner?