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If you could change or add one thing to the forum. What would it be?

It might be helpful for more info and some type of protocol to be put in place for outing and eradicating catfish. I have no idea if there's a procedure but I do know how much it fucking sucks being lied to and finding out the hard way.
 
It might be helpful for more info and some type of protocol to be put in place for outing and eradicating catfish. I have no idea if there's a procedure but I do know how much it fucking sucks being lied to and finding out the hard way.
Alway use your best judgement. Some people are paranoid and always reverse image search everything. If you decide to go this route do not post results publicly.
 
@LillyK99 who was your first closest friend from here? Were you alike or opposites? What made you click?
Almost impossible to remember who was first... but just platonic I'd have to say it was @Lucifer27. He is hilarious and witty which is a killer combo for me to get horny but we ended up just being friends which was really nice. We were like 50/50 on similarities... I'm not sure we "clicked" but he was for sure the first person here I trusted. Unfortunately he disappeared quite some time ago but I haven't forgotten him!
 
This is a question for anyone

If you could change or add one thing to the forum. What would it be?

It might be helpful for more info and some type of protocol to be put in place for outing and eradicating catfish. I have no idea if there's a procedure but I do know how much it fucking sucks being lied to and finding out the hard way.
Alway use your best judgement. Some people are paranoid and always reverse image search everything. If you decide to go this route do not post results publicly.

I can honestly say I'm NO ghost buster. No paranoia here. I'm Not against people google reverse searching for piece of mind but I can honestly say I've never done it personally. My gut feeling and intuition has evolved over the time I've been on fcn. I'm all g in that department.
 
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This is a question for anyone

If you could change or add one thing to the forum. What would it be?

Definitely change... It would be fucking completely drama free. We all are here for our own reasons, looking for a friendship, an online relationship, because we want to have a place to be silly, because we found a way to be flirtatious without that affecting our professional life or even because some of us post more seriously trying to explore their sexual needs and desires. . So yeah no matter why someone would wanna create drama...Well they wouldn't be allowed, not even for a second. Life is already "difficult" for some people so more drama where they're coming to relax and distract their minds... Sorry but it'd be a huge no.

Add...When I first joined the forums I remember some members wishing to be able to post pics on their profile, like having a private gallery which only other members/people they follow/close friends could view. I'd add that feature.
 
@PheonixxxMonroe tell me more about this nip stimulation with other things going on that you enjoy so much? :p

I'm admittedly a bit greedy in the combos department and love more than one pleasure centre being triggered EG: Gspot pleasure + clit vibe, nips being licked, sucked and softly tugged at + pussy penetration and DP fun with toys or cock. Going down and letting my mouth/tongue go wild (it has a mind if it's own) + using my hands to give pleasure at the same time. I'm a natural multitasker so I like to keep and be kept busy :)
 
I'm admittedly a bit greedy in the combos department and love more than one pleasure centre being triggered EG: Gspot pleasure + clit vibe, nips being licked, sucked and softly tugged at + pussy penetration and DP fun with toys or cock. Going down and letting my mouth/tongue go wild (it has a mind if it's own) + using my hands to give pleasure at the same time. I'm a natural multitasker so I like to keep and be kept busy :)
Me tooooooo!! So one of my new faves is having my ass licked while I have a vibrating wand on my clit. It's more enjoyable on my back with a pillow under my hips. Tbh I thought afterwards that I really needed someone else there to either suck on my nipples or put something in my mouth :p
 
@FireflyEyes How do you take pictures of yourself?
I think you take very darling shots. They tend to be very honest and communicate a lot (I imagine) about your personality. They are already a pleasure to look at.

Things to consider:
1. lighting
2. distance
3. post-shoot editing

Lighting is the hardest part. Learning how to use light takes practice. So I guess the tip is practice. Practice. Practice. Take lots of shots and delete them. Don't even worry about posing/focus etc, just play with the light. Take the same shot left side and right side. A little higher angle and a little lower angle. See how the light changes.
I recommend putting your body between the camera and the light source. Either the light is off to the side or a little bit behind you (anywhere so you are in between the light and camera, SamlightIsBack does this well). Also, you could try changing from auto mode on your camera to something else...just to see how it changes the photo. Sometimes taking a portrait in landscape or night mode can give some cool outcomes. (I don't own a smartphone, so I don't know well about how to use the different settings, but again practice practice practice...)

Distance is next. Most peoples comfort zone is about 3-4 feet (90-120cm) but your arm isn't quite that long. So an arms length shot might feel too close and difficult to look at. Tips: use a timer and a stand to get a little distance, a selfie-stick, or use a mirror. In the case of the mirror, the light travels twice the distance to get to the camera (from your body into the mirror and back to the camera....aww Mr. Block my high school physics teacher should be happy today:p#PeopleIhaventthoughtaboutindecades), so even if you are close, the photo has a more distant feeling too it, making it more enticing (Slopps and Resferbersoul20 demonstrate this well). (and mirrors also often mean fingers:rolleyes: which means big WIN for #TeamNoPants)

Post-shoot editing
Simple things like cropping out unnecessary bits. Especially if you move the camera further away to take the picture, there are bound to be other things that sneak into the shot. So in post, crop them out. Only leave what you want to show.
Other post-shoot things, maybe playing with contrast or saturation. If the lighting is good, there is no need to touch these...but if the lighting wasn't great, bumping up the contrast or saturation a little can add a little umph to your shot. (but remember, less is more)

Finally, take a shot when you feel joyful:p Joy is one of the most photographable entities in the universe.:D
 
Definitely change... It would be fucking completely drama free. We all are here for our own reasons, looking for a friendship, an online relationship, because we want to have a place to be silly, because we found a way to be flirtatious without that affecting our professional life or even because some of us post more seriously trying to explore their sexual needs and desires. . So yeah no matter why someone would wanna create drama...Well they wouldn't be allowed, not even for a second. Life is already "difficult" for some people so more drama where they're coming to relax and distract their minds... Sorry but it'd be a huge no.

Add...When I first joined the forums I remember some members wishing to be able to post pics on their profile, like having a private gallery which only other members/people they follow/close friends could view. I'd add that feature.

I'd like to say something in regards to drama - it's shit, nobody likes it. I mean it might be popcorn worthy for some but there's a huge difference between standing up for what you believe in or saying what you think AND on the other hand purposely going out of your way on a mission to look for or start petty dramas just to be nasty though dontcha think?
I do.

I'm allergic to drama but I don't bite my tongue to please others. I'll always call out bullshit.

Oh yeah, I remember the private pic suggestion too but I think I also recall a mod saying it would be too much for the site to handle logistics/data wise. Maybe they just thought it would be too much effort, I dunno but I'd definitely add that feature.
 
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There's a big difference between standing up for what you believe in or saying what you think AND purposely going on a mission to look for or start petty dramas though dontcha think? I do. I'm allergic to drama but I don't bite my tongue to please others. I'll always call out bullshit
I agree with this part.
I dont think bluntness is being a drama queen
 
There's a big difference between standing up for what you believe in or saying what you think AND purposely going on a mission to look for or start petty dramas though dontcha think? I do. I'm allergic to drama but I don't bite my tongue to please others. I'll always call out bullshit.

Oh yeah, I remember the private pic suggestion too but I think I also recall a mod saying it would be too much for the site to handle logistics/data wise. Maybe they just thought it would be too much effort, I dunno but I'd definitely add that feature.

I never said or implied that someone should keep their mouth shut when they feel like saying something or standing up for their beliefs.

Yeah I remember what the reason is as to why that pic suggestion couldn't happen and it's completely reasonable.
 

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