Thoughts Neighborhood Q&A

lucky_luke said:
Can't name only one and if I did it I'd be lying to myself. Probably it wouldn't be an experience but myself. I've trusted people who I shouldn't have and didn't trust people cause my judgment was wrong.
I'd be more careful with things I've said and definitely I'd try to be more of a troll lol.
One thing that I'd have done definitely differently is to not send a pm that I once sent. Also to not show my face on few of my profile pics.
Those things being said tho, fcn has definitely changed my life, was a place that let me express my self and sexuality when I couldn't do that irl cause of my profession and most of all gave me the chance to meet few people that we're good friends.

Ps. Now I think is time for me to go and let my turtle free :eek:
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You can trust me, I'm a
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WomenRfromVenus said:
Question for everyone

If you could change one expierence from your journey at FCN. What would it be?
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Naively trusting the wrong sad excuse for a human in the early days because I assumed people were as real as I was *looks at ground* Tbh I don't know if I'd change that experience because it was character building and yeah it hurt initially yet helped me grow. The most "painful" part was how public it was and how certain members stood by and just stuffed their tonguelicious mouths with popcorn when they knew what was up and could have let me know earlier ... but selfishly didn't :/
 
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WomenRfromVenus said:
Question for everyone

Have you ever had the "one who got away"?
A person who you we're originally supposed to end up with, but due to a cause of fate or by consequences cause by you the relationship failed and as time goes by you wonder what you and that person could have been, making them the one that got away
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Causes of fate stopped me once from hooking up with a like minded soul who also happened to be a professional musician. Things were looking really promising when we met and were supposed to evolve and go further when something ... well, someone got in the way and let's just say I was cock blocked from the one who got away ... I wonder sometimes what could have been. That's the only time I had a "one that got away" because without sounding conceited I was usually the one that got away for someone else as there have been multiple times where i was with someone who couldn't treat me right and wanted another chance (and NEVER got it) - sad but true.
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
Naively trusting the wrong sad excuse for a human in the early days because I assumed people were as real as I was *looks at ground* Tbh I don't know if I'd change that experience because it was character building and yeah it hurt for a initially yet helped me grow. The most "painful" part was how public it was and how certain members stood by and just stuffed their tonguelicious mouths with popcorn when they knew what was up and could have let me know earlier ... but selfishly didn't :/
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You know what? I still remember about that dick and how he fooled many of us... It is a thing to remember.... But the best thing is, you're still here and he's not ;)
 
lucky_luke said:
I've trusted people who I shouldn't have and didn't trust people cause my judgment was wrong
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Im perfectly flawed
And I do admit that I've had moments where I Initially judged people by what I thought they were. But found them to be much different 1on1

I think text is hard because tone and body language is missing.
Sometimes peoples text comes across very firm and offputting

I often think that mine probably does? (I can say something so matter of fact, but really it's just an opinion not bad emotion attached to it) I say it and move on

But theres a difference in forwardness and being an asshole.

I know many blunt people who are really humble and friendly people, once you know them.

I also think my humor gets lost on some people intitally too o_O
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
Naively trusting the wrong sad excuse for a human in the early days because I assumed people were as real as I was *looks at ground* Tbh I don't know if I'd change that experience because it was character building and yeah it hurt initially yet helped me grow. The most "painful" part was how public it was and how certain members stood by and just stuffed their tonguelicious mouths with popcorn when they knew what was up and could have let me know earlier ... but selfishly didn't :/
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I have found this to be a problem many times here. And actually just mentioned it to a friend on skipe the other day.
I understand most people don't like drama, getting inti other's business, confrontation and even gossip.
But theres times when turning a blind eye to things, only enables bad behavior
And sadly when bad behavior is left unchecked. Others becomes victims of it
 
WomenRfromVenus said:
I have found this to be a problem many times here. And actually just mentioned it to a friend on skipe the other day.
I understand most people don't like drama, getting inti other's business, confrontation and even gossip.
But theres times when turning a blind eye to things, only enables bad behavior
And sadly when bad behavior is left unchecked. Others becomes victims of it
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EXACTLY! Well said!! There's times when it's best to be the bigger person no matter the initial fallout/consequences. I for one would have called that shit out in a heart beat if I knew from the outside!! That's just the kind of person I am.
 
WomenRfromVenus said:
Im perfectly flawed
And I do admit that I've had moments where I Initially judged people by what I thought they were. But found them to be much different 1on1

I think text is hard because tone and body language is missing.
Sometimes peoples text comes across very firm and offputting

I often think that mine probably does? (I can say something so matter of fact, but really it's just an opinion not bad emotion attached to it) I say it and move on

But theres a difference in forwardness and being an asshole.

I know many blunt people who are really humble and friendly people, once you know them.

I also think my humor gets lost on some people intitally too o_O
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I mean after all we all are flawed and that's what makes the friendships/relationships between us (any person not you and me) such an amazing thing. When people don't care about finding what is wrong with the other person or judge them but just accept them for what they are and get to really know them.

Texting is such difficult thing. Many times I'm finding myself in a position where I have to explain better and more clearly what I meant cause of my sarcastic tone...I could say it's a disadvantage (sarcasm) when I'm writing.

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Your humor? When I find where you lost it I'll send it back to you :p:cool:
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
EXACTLY! Well said!! There's times when it's best to be the bigger person no matter the initial fallout/consequences. I for one would have called that shit out in a heart beat if I knew from the outside!! That's just the kind of person I am.
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Ahaha. I don't doubt that you would, little miss feisty!!

Sometimes standing for the right thing or standing alone, isn't easy. I think passion just motivates some of us.
I do agree that flight is often more easy...but sometimes the fight trait is necessary
Depends
 
lucky_luke said:
Texting is such difficult thing. Many times I'm finding myself in a position where I have to explain better and more clearly what I meant cause of my sarcastic tone
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LoL there's been MANY times in 3 years that my intentions, texts, words etc were misinterpreted. And I have to explain myself.
It's just a part of being online, I 'spose.
I still find humor because some who think they know me..have never spent time with me..to ever know who I am..
Me, as myself..who I am irl. All of me

Not "Venus" and an avatar on the screen

lucky_luke said:
Your humor? When I find where you lost it I'll send it back to you
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Ship it with some Christmas candies too
 
WomenRfromVenus said:
LoL there's been MANY times in 3 years that my intentions, texts, words etc were misinterpreted. And I have to explain myself.
It's just a part of being online, I 'spose.
I still find humor because some who think they know me..have never spent time with me..to ever know who I am..
Me, as myself..who I am irl. All of me

Not "Venus" and an avatar on the screen


Ship it with some Christmas candies too
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What do you mean? You are not real? I thought Venus and that frosty, kinda kinky erotic pfp for some, is the real you. Smh smh for misleading me Venus... Smh :p:p

I will. I promise your humor, candies, new toys and "treats" are on their way ;):D
 
WomenRfromVenus said:
Im perfectly flawed
And I do admit that I've had moments where I Initially judged people by what I thought they were. But found them to be much different 1on1

I think text is hard because tone and body language is missing.
Sometimes peoples text comes across very firm and offputting

I often think that mine probably does? (I can say something so matter of fact, but really it's just an opinion not bad emotion attached to it) I say it and move on

But theres a difference in forwardness and being an asshole.

I know many blunt people who are really humble and friendly people, once you know them.

I also think my humor gets lost on some people intitally too o_O
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I have to say, yes!! In text, things get lost in translation.
Also, ones sense of humor could be taken the wrong way
Communicating over the internet versus in person, things could be taken the wrong way. It's frustrating at times
 
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