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To me sex is part of life and to be enjoyed whether it's in a relationship or not. So first date sex, yes. A first date isn't even a relationship yet.

But the most exhilarating sexual experience is when it is with meaning. I'm not a romantic, but romance in sex is my weakness.

Ray was the first who made me wait. He was the first to take me away to a place where we could have our first experience. And he was the first to take his time with me.

Waiting has its rewards. And that was ours.

Dont get me wrong though, we can still get pretty raunchy. But waiting and cherishing a moment is when sex turn to making love.

Technically I wasn't taking my time. Emerald Bay is a 4 hour drive from San Francisco and I was tired. So I was slooooow for a reason. Lol. Jk. (Uh oh, helmet on)
 
I have been pretty unlucky in relationships.. I've not had very many and two were very long term so any in between have been rebound sex.
However, to me, sex is not that important. I prefer making a friend and then having fun flirting with them. Anticipation is far sexier that the act I believe. Obviously if the sex is amazing then great, but in my experience, it's never been as amazing as my imagination.
 
I personally feel waiting can be worth it, you need to build the connection and should never build a relationship on sex
I somewhat agree to this. Sex is real fun when you start to understand the other person.

Obviously if your date just wants to hook, get down baby!
 
@nikkiray so what would you have done after the three weeks of waiting and anticipation you have sex and it SUCKS lol? I personally just went with the floor if it happened it happened.

Oh hon. I didn't want to wait. I was ready to floor it on the first night, but he got out the car or in our case the hotel lobby.

I did find out months later why he was in a hurry that night, but I don't wanna show how much of an ass he can be sometimes. lol

But in all seriousness, it was bliss. And now he is tryna floor it and I make him wait.
 

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