Good question. There are benefits to both I guess. with porn you have so many categories and selections you can find something to your liking. With chat the person may not be what you had hoped they would be but the spontaneity May create Sparks that you could not select IE porn categories...Ima say porn cause it never fails, whereas chat is hit or miss.
I totally agree with you! I really like watch porn (yes, girl do that too! ) but some nice chat is good too, but as you said, it's kinda roulette.
Thats my problem. That and the knowing that sombody has potentialy been abused to bring me material to jerk off to softens the wood somewhat.