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Why can't people be straightforward? Why almost no one ever tells you what they think/sense/believe/feel for you even if the truth would be harsh?
Why can't they say... you know what I don't like talking to you, I'm not enjoying your company anymore, you make me feel bored or even tell you if you've done something bad, something that it was wrong. Even the sentence 'you are a crazy alien" would work.
Ffs communication is everything in any kind of relationship, between a couple, friends, coworkers etc etc.

Why do they believe that it is better to ignore you, stop talking to you, unfriend you or anything without even a simple explanation?

Probably I'm just crazy, weird, idiot and things work like that all the time. Probably I'm pretending to be a nice guy when I'm not. Probably I'm not judging myself as hard as I should.

Probably I have no clue... Probably...
 
lucky_luke said:
Why can't people be straightforward? Why almost no one ever tells you what they think/sense/believe/feel for you even if the truth would be harsh?
Why can't they say... you know what I don't like talking to you, I'm not enjoying your company anymore, you make me feel bored or even tell you if you've done something bad, something that it was wrong. Even the sentence 'you are a crazy alien" would work.
Ffs communication is everything in any kind of relationship, between a couple, friends, coworkers etc etc.

Why do they believe that it is better to ignore you, stop talking to you, unfriend you or anything without even a simple explanation?

Probably I'm just crazy, weird, idiot and things work like that all the time. Probably I'm pretending to be a nice guy when I'm not. Probably I'm not judging myself as hard as I should.

Probably I have no clue... Probably...
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Because it's easier that way, less awkward, they don't have to think about your feelings if they don't have to read your messages or hear your voice. I think it's cowardly but I have also done it to people online if I tell them not to ask for pics, send pics, etc. but they refuse to listen. I think if you once considered someone a friend you should let them know!
 
LillyK99 said:
Because it's easier that way, less awkward, they don't have to think about your feelings if they don't have to read your messages or hear your voice. I think it's cowardly but I have also done it to people online if I tell them not to ask for pics, send pics, etc. but they refuse to listen. I think if you once considered someone a friend you should let them know!
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Isn't it more awkward one day to be friends with someone and the next day to be like strangers? Without a damn explanation?
We are not talking about idiots that only ask or send dick pics. That's completely different in my opinion.

As I said previously... Probably I'm young for some and I have no clue.

Btw thank you for replying to my silly thoughts :)
 
lucky_luke said:
Isn't it more awkward one day to be friends with someone and the next day to be like strangers? Without a damn explanation?
We are not talking about idiots that only ask or send dick pics. That's completely different in my opinion.

As I said previously... Probably I'm young for some and I have no clue.

Btw thank you for replying to my silly thoughts :)
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It is! I actually did that to one of my closest Fcn friends last year. Not something I'm proud of but I was going through so much at the time and just couldn't handle what they had going on too. It was an ugly moment and we're fine now. I had a good friends do it to me too who recently returned and messaged me apologizing. In both cases the person was going through a lot of personal hell. Obviously Idk what it is for your friend and it sucks not having closure ❤
 
LillyK99 said:
It is! I actually did that to one of my closest Fcn friends last year. Not something I'm proud of but I was going through so much at the time and just couldn't handle what they had going on too. It was an ugly moment and we're fine now. I had a good friends do it to me too who recently returned and messaged me apologizing. In both cases the person was going through a lot of personal hell. Obviously Idk what it is for your friend and it sucks not having closure ❤
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I think that I saw that phrase posted on a thread at some point and despite the fact that I didn't agree at that time... Well... It is what it is lol.
 
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lucky_luke said:
I think that I saw that phrase posted on a thread at some point and despite the fact that I didn't agree at that time... Well... It I what it is lol.
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I wouldn't have been ok with it all 10 years ago but I've gone through enough grief and depression to know not to take it personally ❤
 
I have this old friend. One day we were friends, then the next we were not. But I didn't know things had changed until months, possibly even years further down the road. To this day, I still do not know why. I could try and guess, but guessing is not knowing. I could think about every mistake I ever made. I could drive myself crazy thinking about it -- and, frankly, I have. It took a long time, a lot of anxiety and anguish, but at some point I just let go of it. Not that I am "over it" but I had to stop over-thinking, or thinking about it at all.
 
It's not fair to not have the power to take away the pain that the person I love the most feels.
I would change places, I'd choose me to be sick instead of that person in a single heart beat without questions. Knowing that that person isn't feeling well it kills me, I love her so much yet I'm so unable to help her.

Life if a fucking funny bitch and sometimes I don't like her, not at all...
 
So I have been sick for 7 years now with chronic illnesses and I can't eat certain foods and one thing I couldn't eat were burgers because they made me very sick. So I bought some plant based burgers and made one of those tonight and it came out really good tbh. I could tell it wasn't ground beef but it still had good flavors and I still enjoyed it with all my condiments on it. So I'm glad I found something that can still be somewhat like a burger but won't make me sick either. ❤❤
 
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Watch The Social Dilemma documentary on Netflix. THIS is why there is so much polarization. THIS is why people no longer can agree to disagree.
 
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