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So I'm in the subway, the automatic door is closing and there comes this guy out of nowhere... He puts his foot between the 2 closing doors, forcing them to reopen, before he jumps in.

Than I notice he has a cast covering his arm and several fingers. And since than i can't help thinking: "is that maybe exactly how how broke his arm in the first place??" :D
 
Someone asks me how come my life is so perfect because I never complain I never cry etc. How do I stay so positive.

No my life is not perfect. Every day requires some discipline to seize the day and say right let's do it.

I have my ups and downs. I complain, I cry, I scream, I get discouraged, sad, worried, angry I am human but, I acknowledge the emotions confront it and let it go.

I am lucky to have a good support group that encourages me, that tells me off when needed, embraces me for who I am, carries me when my feet drag, lift me when I fall, makes me laugh when I cry, who sit quietly with me when words get too few or that just allow me to talk and talk until I have nothing more to say and who is honest when they feel I need to hear something I don't want to hear.

I choose the positive over the negative I work hard at not letting the negative steal the joy of my life. I adjust my lifestyle so I eliminate the toxic and negative. I deal with my problems with a sober realityd and am not ashamed to ask for help when needed. Pride is a good thing but it can also be your downfall if you handle it wrong. Be brave enough to ask for and get the right help (which is not in FCN) and not just ignore well-meaning advice.

And I face every day with a smile because for me it really makes the difficult days easier. Then of course there is @Jinxy who just slap me down to earth when needed ... I so adores that meanie.

I also choose not to bring my problems to FCN, FCN is my escape for fun, and pleasure.
 
SweetLesGirl said:
Someone asks me how come my life is so perfect because I never complain I never cry etc. How do I stay so positive.

No my life is not perfect. Every day requires some discipline to seize the day and say right let's do it.

I have my ups and downs. I complain, I cry, I scream, I get discouraged, sad, worried, angry I am human but, I acknowledge the emotions confront it and let it go.

I am lucky to have a good support group that encourages me, that tells me off when needed, embraces me for who I am, carries me when my feet drag, lift me when I fall, makes me laugh when I cry, who sit quietly with me when words get too few or that just allow me to speak and speak until I have nothing more to say and who is honest when they feel I need to hear something I don't want to hear.

I choose the positive over the negative I work hard at not letting the negative steal the joy of my life. I adjust my lifestyle so I eliminate the toxic and negative. I deal with my problems with a sober realityd and am not ashamed to ask for help when needed. Pride is a good thing but it can also be your downfall if you handle it wrong. Be brave enough to ask for and get the right help (which is not in FCN) and not just ignore well-meaning advice.

And I face every day with a smile because for me it really makes the difficult days easier. Then of course there is @Jinxy who just slap me down to earth when needed ... I so adores that meanie.

I also choose not to bring my problems to FCN, FCN is my escape for fun, and pleasure.
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I know for sure @Jinxy would like me to say, dit is de waarheid als een koe!
 
SubSoph said:
Love is overrated. Its filled with pluses, sure. But sometimes the negatives take in place of those. The worries, the constant overthinking. Its not good. Though, at the same time, love can be a beautiful thing. Two bodies intertwining to become one. *sigh*

...I need dick.
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That was well said and beautiful.
 
Thalassa said:
My head in the cradle of my arm, against the steering wheel. A stranger knocked on my window to ask if I was alright. Such a simple act of kindness.

(At the same time I thought... who spills their stuff to a rando? Lol)
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Because sometimes spilling it to a total stranger who is not emosionaly attach to you can lift the weight from you shoulders more than anybody

Hugs for you my lovely friend xx
 
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