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Seeing that this is a sex site I always wonder if all the drama, insults and names calling is a kink or fetish. I mean its a sex site right? Is people getting off on it? If do well then its just a weird way to pleasure yourself. Just wondering ....o_O:confused::eek:
 
Seeing that this is a sex site I always wonder if all the drama, insults and names calling is a kink or fetish. I mean its a sex site right? Is people getting off on it? If do well then its just a weird way to pleasure yourself. Just wondering ....o_O:confused::eek:
I suppose any site with interpersonal interactions will include sexual aspects... which inevitably leads to strong emotions and drama. I knew this woman on another site that swore up and down to hate all the drama but, always attracted drama from all corners. I felt sorry for her. Then I realized she was a huge fan of reality TV and those "Housewives of...." shows with all the conniving sorts. I could easily see her as one that would shout at the characters on the TV about how they should react.... It dawned on me that, for her, the chat site was a way of participating in one of those callous "reality" shows of her own making. So, long story but, yeah, some people relish the cruelty. Did she "get off" on it? Well, I didn't inquire.
 
I suppose any site with interpersonal interactions will include sexual aspects... which inevitably leads to strong emotions and drama. I knew this woman on another site that swore up and down to hate all the drama but, always attracted drama from all corners. I felt sorry for her. Then I realized she was a huge fan of reality TV and those "Housewives of...." shows with all the conniving sorts. I could easily see her as one that would shout at the characters on the TV about how they should react.... It dawned on me that, for her, the chat site was a way of participating in one of those callous "reality" shows of her own making. So, long story but, yeah, some people relish the cruelty. Did she "get off" on it? Well, I didn't inquire.
Well that gives us a different point of view but an intresting thought. Who knows we humans is strange creatures. Was just a weird thought I have in the early hours of the morning haha.
 
When life happens to you and puts you through a test of endurance, it does not ask how young or old you are. It does not ask whether you are ready for it or not. No it just goes its course and you have to get along or you stay behind. Sometimes it will ask you to leave your comfort zone and take a risk. But I know for sure whether you fight back or you stay lying the choice is yours.
 
Where's that boundary between what should be said and what shouldn't? How do we find it? It's different from one person to the next. Are one of the ways to cross the line and then retreat?

Why are we so complicated? Why couldn't we all come with a manual? Be standard. Be consistent. Be easy to manage and deal with. Why do we need to have subconscious, underlying feelings and thoughts, contradicting promises, words, behaviors?

In an ambiguous situation, how do we know when to believe, to acquiesce? Are we to extrapolate from the past or deny it and take leaps of faith?

Do we even need the answers? Do we even need to think about all this? It's exhausting.
 
Where's that boundary between what should be said and what shouldn't. How do we find it? It's different from one person to the next. Are one of the ways to cross the line and then retreat?

Why are we so complicated? Why couldn't we all come with a manual? Be standard. Be consistent. Be easy to manage and deal with. Why do we need to have subconscious, underlying feelings and thoughts contradicting promises, words, behaviors?

In an ambiguous situation, how do we know when to believe, to acquiesce? Are we to extrapolate from the past or deny it and take leaps of faith?

Do we even need the answers? Do we even need to think about all this? It's exhausting.
My brain is melting.
 

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