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I don't care who you are, what your title is or what department you work in, if you talk to a customer and/or do something on their account, leave a detailed note of what you said and did. That way I don't have a customer yelling at me because I can't find information about what you said or did.
 
The day I decided to look at my circumstances differently than just problems that day my life started to change it was like one little pebble in the water that crept out more and bigger until I realized everything I needed to change and to be happier is already within me I just have to explore it and feed it. If we change the way we look at life so many things is possible then the "im"possible become "I'm" possible. If we start to love us self others will start to love you too. But if you dont love yourself and constantly belittle yourself and dont see yourself as worthy how can you expected others to see you as worthy. How you talk about yourself can make a big difference.
 
Some people seem to use a “depression” to get in the center of the attention… in my experience when I was depressed, I felt the opposite way and I wanted to be left alone..

It took time to acknowledge and accept that I was in a dark period. I felt embarrassed.. I didn’t want people to look at me different and it took courage to tell the people I love that I wasn’t doing well, it took strength to tell the people I work with that I wasn’t able to put in the same effort as they were used to, it took willpower to fight my way back through moments of pain, darkness and anxiety. During this proces I learned to open up more and I feel like I came out stronger, but I never wanted to be the center of attention in any way.. for me it was important to talk with people that are part of my life on a personal level, rather than shouting it out.

That is just me, respectfully saying everybody deals with things differently.

I would never hope people have to go through this, it can be tough.. but my advice; look in the mirror, acknowledge where you stand and envision where you want to be and prepare for a bumpy ride to get there. Accept the fact that you need to take two steps forward and one step back at times, just remember you still set 1 step more forward than back to get where you want to be! ❤️
 
I am currently and once again going though the discarded phase with someone who has narcissistic tendencies. It's tiring, confusing, and hurtful especially when you are unaware of what you are dealing with. Now as someone who knows what it is and what it means, it's still tiring and hurtful, but this time it really clicked with me. This person could have cared less if I lived or died this winter because my illmess according to them was an excuse not to be fun. Long story short, they are the damaged one not me. I am taking this time while being discarded to look inward and seek reassurance from friends and family this is not normal behavior and to move on when given the opportunity.
 
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