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Harthacnut said:
Another little thought I've had, and i mean no disrespect by this and I'm not judging.

But.

When someone here posts a sexual photograph of themselves and someone responds with "you've made me hard", or words to that affect, I wonder if thats the normal body response or if im broken.

Because seeing a random person I have no emotional connection to naked, doesn't really do anything for me.

This isn't a jab at the person posting the picture or the person replying to the picture by the way. Its more wondering if me not being turned on by random nudity is odd or not.
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Absolutely not odd

There are no set rules for what turns people on. For some, a simple pic might be enough for an immediate physical response. For others, they might need to create some context, think of a fantasy, communicate with the person some more, or whatever. For yet others, a pic of stranger might never trigger that response, no matter how much they look at it or think about it

Another thing to keep in mind is that the statement "you've made me hard/wet/etc" might not always be taken literally. It could just be the way those people express that they really like the pic (and whether or not the OP appreciates that kind of blunt expression is another matter lol)

Remember, just bc you don't react the same way others do, doesn't mean you're broken. It means you have your own way of doing things. We are all individuals
 
Harthacnut said:
Another little thought I've had, and i mean no disrespect by this and I'm not judging.

But.

When someone here posts a sexual photograph of themselves and someone responds with "you've made me hard", or words to that affect, I wonder if thats the normal body response or if im broken.

Because seeing a random person I have no emotional connection to naked, doesn't really do anything for me.

This isn't a jab at the person posting the picture or the person replying to the picture by the way. Its more wondering if me not being turned on by random nudity is odd or not.
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I see a lot of beautiful women on here and I comment to that effect on occasion, but it’s not because they do or do not make me hard or turn me on. It’s because I happen to think the pic they’ve posted shows beauty. I include the pics you’ve recently posted in the filter thread although they in no way make me hard. They’re just amazing beautiful pics
 
Harthacnut said:
Another little thought I've had, and i mean no disrespect by this and I'm not judging.

But.

When someone here posts a sexual photograph of themselves and someone responds with "you've made me hard", or words to that affect, I wonder if thats the normal body response or if im broken.

Because seeing a random person I have no emotional connection to naked, doesn't really do anything for me.

This isn't a jab at the person posting the picture or the person replying to the picture by the way. Its more wondering if me not being turned on by random nudity is odd or not.
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I know that i'm demi and not attracted to porn generally. When I share photos they are artistic, or outfit shots or shots of my makeup or whatever. The intents not arouse someone. It's to be fun and to show my outfits and art. I forget that men won't ever see the art or the fashion or whatever i'm trying to convey. So i've just accepted those reactions on my photos and not really give it much thought beyond "well ok cool glad you like them" lol. It kinda sucks I can't really share any of it without someone using one hand to talk to me. But hey.
 
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Why do some people feel the need to comment on threads that obviously doesnt interest them .....the need to belittle people because of there kinks so they look funny within the group isnt funny or cool .....so what if you don’t like what they are saying ...ignore it ....so what if they are being taken in by fakes ...again just ignore it ...all your doing is creating negativity for your own amusement ......maybe you should rise above such behaviour .......

online forums etc is a place some people go to escape real life shit so for them to get shit online can really effect people’s mental health ....just think sometimes taking the piss out of a stranger might gain you extra likes within your group but that person might take it really hard or might be going through some really difficult shit in real life ....not everyone is perfect and will fit into your social groups …me included but there is no need to add more shit onto someone’s life who you have no idea about the real them or what they are going through.....let people have fun ....let people make fools of themselves .....as long as you are happy who cares about others.....that’s my little thoughts and I am done goodbye x
 
Amelia24 said:
Why do some people feel the need to comment on threads that obviously doesnt interest them .....the need to belittle people because of there kinks so they look funny within the group isnt funny or cool .....so what if you don’t like what they are saying ...ignore it ....so what if they are being taken in by fakes ...again just ignore it ...all your doing is creating negativity for your own amusement ......maybe you should rise above such behaviour .......

online forums etc is a place some people go to escape real life shit so for them to get shit online can really effect people’s mental health ....just think sometimes taking the piss out of a stranger might gain you extra likes within your group but that person might take it really hard or might be going through some really difficult shit in real life ....not everyone is perfect and will fit into your social groups …me included but there is no need to add more shit onto someone’s life who you have no idea about the real them or what they are going through.....let people have fun ....let people make fools of themselves .....as long as you are happy who cares about others.....that’s my little thoughts and I am done goodbye x
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I have no real problem with some of this, and understand people need escapism or whatever it may be. But, on a “general basis”

However, it can have a flip side. Which very much can be a problem.

For example: A person comes along and does not ignore it. The person buys into said escapism, and goes on to invest time & emotion into the perceived person. That person “lets” them, but down the line they decide they don’t need that escape anymore so just disappear. Or worse still, it unravels and the person on the other end of it is left to feel like what. Shit.

So on face value escapism is fine, but in some cases it takes hold, becomes personal and has consequences. Which is not ok.
 
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