Thoughts Post your little thoughts.

ChocolateCockOnCam said:
I know man, but it cannot always be our fault. Probably the real life happened to them and they just left, but how cruel is it to just vanish?
Click to expand...
I have been ignoring a lot of messages lately. Just too much going on irl & its tiring to respond to messages when I just want to veg out and detach. Lots of human behavior is considered rude if you aren't aware of the context
 
lol Bunch of Sad Sacs lol :) It's the way of life on the net. People come and people go . Some stop contact as feelings start to get deeper. which is not a good thing to do on a site like this if your not here for that. I chat with many people in here. But I've learned to be selective now a days. If I get a message (and I see it as some times it can get busy in here ) , they I sort of take note of what they post and then make up my mind :) Just my 2c worth :)
 
MissLed said:
lol Bunch of Sad Sacs lol :) It's the way of life on the net. People come and people go . Some stop contact as feelings start to get deeper. which is not a good thing to do on a site like this if your not here for that. I chat with many people in here. But I've learned to be selective now a days. If I get a message (and I see it as some times it can get busy in here ) , they I sort of take note of what they post and then make up my mind :) Just my 2c worth :)
Click to expand...

Oi!! I'm not a sad sac!! lol
;)
 
MissLed said:
lol Bunch of Sad Sacs lol :) It's the way of life on the net. People come and people go . Some stop contact as feelings start to get deeper. which is not a good thing to do on a site like this if your not here for that. I chat with many people in here. But I've learned to be selective now a days. If I get a message (and I see it as some times it can get busy in here ) , they I sort of take note of what they post and then make up my mind :) Just my 2c worth :)
Click to expand...

I get what you are saying. People come and go. If I send someone a message and they never respond, so be it. I know they are either too busy or not interested. It's mainly people I've talked to before and when they don't respond or just disappear it just sucks for lack of a better word. Life happens, but is really hard to respond back and say "Hey, I don't want to talk anymore" or "Too much going on, need a break" or something along those lines.

I'm very selective in who I talk with as well, but enough of me rambling! : )
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
I get what you are saying. People come and go. If I send someone a message and they never respond, so be it. I know they are either too busy or not interested. It's mainly people I've talked to before and when they don't respond or just disappear it just sucks for lack of a better word. Life happens, but is really hard to respond back and say "Hey, I don't want to talk anymore" or "Too much going on, need a break" or something along those lines.

I'm very selective in who I talk with as well, but enough of me rambling! : )
Click to expand...
I get that :) . If it was someone I was chatting ot for a long time and they suddenly stopped then I would worry a bit. But in the end..what can you do? I've found that if you let things like that bother you then your in for one big headache :) Even though its hurts , there are plenty of other people on line to talk to .
 
MissLed said:
I get that :) . If it was someone I was chatting ot for a long time and they suddenly stopped then I would worry a bit. But in the end..what can you do? I've found that if you let things like that bother you then your in for one big headache :) Even though its hurts , there are plenty of other people on line to talk to .
Click to expand...

You are absolutely right. Can't do anything about it and just have to continue on. It's the best way to handle it! Great words of wisdom! : )
 
MissLed said:
lol @ words of wisdom lol ....But on the flip side...I had a friend on here....We made a pact to always check on each other...and we did :) ...Then nothing .
Click to expand...

Ouch, that is rough. It stinks when those kind of things happen. Like you said though what can you do except for go on and try not to let it bother you? Thanks for the pep talk, you are a cool person!
 
TBig88M said:
Well, now that that's settled... I was thinking about people who move because of work or family etc. And they are now living close to an airport.
And then they complain about the noise.

Like,.... WTF??
Click to expand...


When I moved to another state I live very close to the airport. Like you can almost see people in the plane close. They would fly over head to land and were rather noisy. But before I moved I like on a very large main road..and that got busy an noisy . So I guess I was used to it . But a bit of a bummer when your trying to talk to someone on the phone lol :)
 
LillyK99 said:
I have been ignoring a lot of messages lately. Just too much going on irl & its tiring to respond to messages when I just want to veg out and detach. Lots of human behavior is considered rude if you aren't aware of the context
Click to expand...

I've learnt my way through these experiences and I always give that person the benefit of the doubt. This isn't for just everyone on here, perhaps you get so many messages from people on here that you get to be selective about it. I get none, so... that's some context right there...

Anyways, that's that.
 
I always wonder how those out gritting the roads in bad weather manage to get to work?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top