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People assume I'm an "attention seeker" when I speak about my health but that's not the case. I speak because I am open about my health and I won't hide it or feel ashamed about it. Most don't try to get to know me like the real me and ask about my life or health. I appear fine to most but people truly don't know the struggles I deal with or what it's like to live my life. We all have struggles and someone will always have it worse but it doesn't mean I can't express my emotions about my health because I legit have the right to do so. I have a 3 ring binder full of medical papers etc from battling to have tests done and approve medicines for me and all that stuff regarding health stuff and that is the side people don't know about or can't see since they're not in my life like that. People tell me "oh be glad you just have that so at least it's not cancer." Yes and trust I'm glad because cancer is horrible and I won't say what I deal with is on the same level of cancer because it's not but it's definitely on a different level and not a walk in the park either. People don't walk in my shoes so can't expect people to understand because you can't until it happens to you but I'd like to think people just have compassion for others regardless of what you know or don't. I would never wish my health on anyone not even anyone I couldn't stand because no one deserve the nightmare I live. So all I can say is be kind to all because we all have our struggles. ♡
 
nessabbyxo said:
People assume I'm an "attention seeker" when I speak about my health but that's not the case. I speak because I am open about my health and I won't hide it or feel ashamed about it. Most don't try to get to know me like the real me and ask about my life or health. I appear fine to most but people truly don't know the struggles I deal with or what it's like to live my life. We all have struggles and someone will always have it worse but it doesn't mean I can't express my emotions about my health because I legit have the right to do so. I have a 3 ring binder full of medical papers etc from battling to have tests done and approve medicines for me and all that stuff regarding health stuff and that is the side people don't know about or can't see since they're not in my life like that. People tell me "oh be glad you just have that so at least it's not cancer." Yes and trust I'm glad because cancer is horrible and I won't say what I deal with is on the same level of cancer because it's not but it's definitely on a different level and not a walk in the park either. People don't walk in my shoes so can't expect people to understand because you can't until it happens to you but I'd like to think people just have compassion for others regardless of what you know or don't. I would never wish my health on anyone not even anyone I couldn't stand because no one deserve the nightmare I live. So all I can say is be kind to all because we all have our struggles. ♡
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This is beautiful.

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LillyK99 said:
Not everyone will agree with you or your feelings. Not everyone will appreciate them, respect them, understand them or protect them. But share them anyways. Don't hide them or stuff them or pretend they don't exist. You, your thoughts and your feelings are valid, and important, whether they're "right" or "wrong". They don't always need to be made public or shared with everyone but don't hide who you are. Because when you hide parts of yourself it makes the rest of the world less than perfect. And we all need you in it ❤
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Don't you tell me what to do! One psychology class and you're Sharon Stone huh? Can you please cross your legs in front of me again wearing that skirt......thanks.
 
nessabbyxo said:
People assume I'm an "attention seeker" when I speak about my health but that's not the case. I speak because I am open about my health and I won't hide it or feel ashamed about it. Most don't try to get to know me like the real me and ask about my life or health. I appear fine to most but people truly don't know the struggles I deal with or what it's like to live my life. We all have struggles and someone will always have it worse but it doesn't mean I can't express my emotions about my health because I legit have the right to do so. I have a 3 ring binder full of medical papers etc from battling to have tests done and approve medicines for me and all that stuff regarding health stuff and that is the side people don't know about or can't see since they're not in my life like that. People tell me "oh be glad you just have that so at least it's not cancer." Yes and trust I'm glad because cancer is horrible and I won't say what I deal with is on the same level of cancer because it's not but it's definitely on a different level and not a walk in the park either. People don't walk in my shoes so can't expect people to understand because you can't until it happens to you but I'd like to think people just have compassion for others regardless of what you know or don't. I would never wish my health on anyone not even anyone I couldn't stand because no one deserve the nightmare I live. So all I can say is be kind to all because we all have our struggles. ♡
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Hey there Nessa Sista :) You are one brave Lady in so many ways :) What you are going through is your life. If talking on here helps you deal with it and make sense of it all then that's what you do lol :) Don't you pay no mind to the ones that don't ask how you and your family are doing. They will be dealing with their own real life needs. Just like you. Me. and everyone on here and even the Nurse that takes your blood :) everyone and I mean Everyone on this site is here because...They want to fill in a void ....Want answers.....Have questions....Some are lonely....Some feel too awkward to be in public....Some need to talk....Some Vent....Some Horny lol ...and some not lol and some are just here for adult conversations....Some are single Mums and Dads....Some married...But all in all...We are all on here for our own reasons :) And the times you take to listen are the times when yu really hear the soul of that person. Soooo Thanks for bearing yours to us :) ... You Go Girl!! :) xox
 
MissLed said:
Hey there Nessa Sista :) You are one brave Lady in so many ways :) What you are going through is your life. If talking on here helps you deal with it and make sense of it all then that's what you do lol :) Don't you pay no mind to the ones that don't ask how you and your family are doing. They will be dealing with their own real life needs. Just like you. Me. and everyone on here and even the Nurse that takes your blood :) everyone and I mean Everyone on this site is here because...They want to fill in a void ....Want answers.....Have questions....Some are lonely....Some feel too awkward to be in public....Some need to talk....Some Vent....Some Horny lol ...and some not lol and some are just here for adult conversations....Some are single Mums and Dads....Some married...But all in all...We are all on here for our own reasons :) And the times you take to listen are the times when yu really hear the soul of that person. Soooo Thanks for bearing yours to us :) ... You Go Girl!! :) xox
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Thanks girl and yeah I don't necessarily worry about people not asking me stuff it's more of people just assuming about my life rather than asking me stuff or just believing rumors or lies that people create about me. If people were really wanted to know they would ask, not just believe the stuff they might hear. The ones who care will always ask the ones who are interested or wonder will ask if they want and others will just assume so guess that's just how the world works lol.
 
Anyone else wish stuff from Star Trek was real? For me it's not replicators or transporters, it would have to be Borg nanites. You know.... for health stuff......not enslaving others... definitely not.
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
Sometimes when you say "Fuck my throat" you literally mean FUCK MY THROAT"

Not today

Right now I am saying "FUCK MY THROAT" No dick involved cause swallowing feels like razor blades! :(
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Not "liking" your pain, but the thought of randomly (at work or public) saying slightly too loud "Fuck my throat!". What an interesting life I could lead....
 
Jacey85 said:
Anyone else wish stuff from Star Trek was real? For me it's not replicators or transporters, it would have to be Borg nanites. You know.... for health stuff......not enslaving others... definitely not.
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Is now thinking of nanites, and after that leading to thoughts of the new Vin Diesel film "Bloodshot".
 
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