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I will not bend over for Bullies and their Ultimatums ! No matter who these Bullies are or how long they have been on here!. I have been on many chat sites and have never seen such childish high school behavior! And on an "Adult" chat none the less. I come from a family where we support our females. We encourage them and lift their spirits not tear them down . Not only in public but in a group like " Hounds from the Pound". To fill in those that don't know what's going on ...Here it is...One of my pics has been found on other sites...Nasty sites. Sites I would never post on . since these Bullies found it they have rallied together and decided that if I don't comply to their ultimatums I must there fore be "Fake". And If I still don't comply I must not only be "Fake" but also "Male". I like taking pics of myself but I''m not shallow. I like having my pics taken due to the fact that it was my Husbands favorite thing to do . It took me ages to feel comfortable to post any of them in here and share it with people on this site. But not any more! People ask me why I delete them so fast after I post them ...This is why!!!! They end up on other sites! I know this has happened to other people on this site and they have been bullied into doing things that they are not entirely comfortable doing . So be warned! If this is happening to me then it sure as hell could happen to you . I've never liked Bullies no matter what shape and form they take. This is an "Adult" site with adult content and adult conversations not a teeny bopper pound hound hunt!! Like many people in this situation say...I don't have to prove anything to anyone let alone Bullies with Ultimatums !! Seem's to be the appropriate response . These Bullies are " Ladies" !! Well done " Ladies". How proud your Family and Friends must be of your actions. I feel nothing but utter disgust and contempt for you and your actions. not even a pm to say .. Hey Cass ...Guess what?... But no. It was done in public!!. I'm not fighting this because you " The Pound Hounds" are not worth it. But I am worth this post !!! How dare you treat people in this manner !! My heart goes to all the Lovely and Magnificent people that I have come to know quite well and care for deeply . These are the people I will miss dearly xox...If being banned for this post happens then so be it. If not then I will wait for my 2 weeks till my account is deactivated. This sort of behavior is NOT OK ANYWHERE and I WILL NOT TOLERATE IT IN MY LIFE!!. And I will not partake in it other than this post. We all have our own opinions and this is mine. I will not conform , comply or tolerate Bullies!! I own you nothing! I am who I am and I won't change that for the likes of you or anyone else. I like being true to me!! It was the way I was raised. While I'm at it, I might as well tell the story as to why I'm on this site. Less than half a handful of people know....I've been on many chat sites on and off over the years.. I was absent from chat for awhile as life went on . Two years ago on Easter Saturday Morning a series of horrible events happened . My Mother came to live with my Husband and I years before. The last 8 months of her life she battled Colon Cancer. She didn't want to pass over in a hospital so remained at home with us. Towards the end it became really hard and although my Husband was busy running his own company when he came home he helped care for my Mother along side me . He never once complained. I left my job and our social life was non-existent. All our focus was on Mum. On Easter Friday his mates asked him to a cards night. He didn't want to go but I told him he should and to have fun. So he went. 12.30 am Easter Saturday morning my Mum passed away. I rang Shayne . He told me he was leaving right there and then. In the mean time I made more calls and did what needed to be done. a couple of hours passed when we realized that Shayne was not home yet. No answer on his phone . Friends said he already left. They went looking for him . They found him half way home . A Van had hit him and dragged him and is Triumph under it. My Husband died on impact. One hour and 15 minutes after Mum. I'm not telling you all this to get sympathy . I don't need it!! Needless to say I was a wreck!. I became withdrawn and a recluse. And I so very much hated the Big Man Upstairs in a way you wouldn't believe. Over time Family , Friends and my Psychologist talked about chat sites and how it might help with my healing process . It did for awhile. Until I came across a man that I told my story to. The first time I opened up. He took advantage of this. It cut me up. On that site my name was " CandyLips" . It's what Shayne called me since the minute we met. They were the last words I hear from him . Feeling gutted I left the site to many protests from many great friends I made there. Family etc said try again . I did. I found this site. But having been soul crushed I changed my name to MissLed. That's what he did and his motives were cruel. I left that site as it felt like the right thing to do . Even though I struggle every moment of every day with my pain , loss and grief , I WILL come out of this stronger and with my head held high. I just didn't realize how much of a long and hard process this was going to be . I will say though that being on this very site and being blessed to chat with so many wonderful people have very literally saved my life!! You have lifted my spirits and pulled me out of my reclusive state . I have returned to work although I don't financially need to. I didn't know how much I missed itI've also been out and about with Family and Friends. As my Psychologist tells me ...Baby Steps. I thank Stan for this site as it has made me get the courage to get my life on the right track again .I am stronger and more confident to be around people irl again and for this I am grateful
. My story is not something I readily share as why would I add a sob story to any one elses worries. I will leave this site as it is plain to see that i am strong enough to do so
But i will not go without my say!! Don't be a victim to Bullies on line or irl!! I may not have the level of education as these Bullies but I have a heart and it beats true!! I'm not normally one to make waves but enough is enough!! I don't normally say bad things about people ( I did once and it didn't sit well with me ) but I am struggling with finding something nice to say about these Bullies!! And that's is saying something ..Well to me it is . Don't let them stop you from being who you are!! Don't let the Evil in the world stop you from showing love to others !! Hold your head up and stand your ground!! My thoughts and heart go out to the ones I love and respect and cherish on here . You all know who you are
I thank you all for being a part of what has made me come back to LIFE!! I wish you all the very best of every endeavor you meet
...XOX Cassidy
P.s...Shine on regardless!!
xox...Say what you will Bullies as I will not reply. My side of this conversation is over!!
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I will not bend over for Bullies and their Ultimatums ! No matter who these Bullies are or how long they have been on here!. I have been on many chat sites and have never seen such childish high school behavior! And on an "Adult" chat none the less. I come from a family where we support our females. We encourage them and lift their spirits not tear them down . Not only in public but in a group like " Hounds from the Pound". To fill in those that don't know what's going on ...Here it is...One of my pics has been found on other sites...Nasty sites. Sites I would never post on . since these Bullies found it they have rallied together and decided that if I don't comply to their ultimatums I must there fore be "Fake". And If I still don't comply I must not only be "Fake" but also "Male". I like taking pics of myself but I''m not shallow. I like having my pics taken due to the fact that it was my Husbands favorite thing to do . It took me ages to feel comfortable to post any of them in here and share it with people on this site. But not any more! People ask me why I delete them so fast after I post them ...This is why!!!! They end up on other sites! I know this has happened to other people on this site and they have been bullied into doing things that they are not entirely comfortable doing . So be warned! If this is happening to me then it sure as hell could happen to you . I've never liked Bullies no matter what shape and form they take. This is an "Adult" site with adult content and adult conversations not a teeny bopper pound hound hunt!! Like many people in this situation say...I don't have to prove anything to anyone let alone Bullies with Ultimatums !! Seem's to be the appropriate response . These Bullies are " Ladies" !! Well done " Ladies". How proud your Family and Friends must be of your actions. I feel nothing but utter disgust and contempt for you and your actions. not even a pm to say .. Hey Cass ...Guess what?... But no. It was done in public!!. I'm not fighting this because you " The Pound Hounds" are not worth it. But I am worth this post !!! How dare you treat people in this manner !! My heart goes to all the Lovely and Magnificent people that I have come to know quite well and care for deeply . These are the people I will miss dearly xox...If being banned for this post happens then so be it. If not then I will wait for my 2 weeks till my account is deactivated. This sort of behavior is NOT OK ANYWHERE and I WILL NOT TOLERATE IT IN MY LIFE!!. And I will not partake in it other than this post. We all have our own opinions and this is mine. I will not conform , comply or tolerate Bullies!! I own you nothing! I am who I am and I won't change that for the likes of you or anyone else. I like being true to me!! It was the way I was raised. While I'm at it, I might as well tell the story as to why I'm on this site. Less than half a handful of people know....I've been on many chat sites on and off over the years.. I was absent from chat for awhile as life went on . Two years ago on Easter Saturday Morning a series of horrible events happened . My Mother came to live with my Husband and I years before. The last 8 months of her life she battled Colon Cancer. She didn't want to pass over in a hospital so remained at home with us. Towards the end it became really hard and although my Husband was busy running his own company when he came home he helped care for my Mother along side me . He never once complained. I left my job and our social life was non-existent. All our focus was on Mum. On Easter Friday his mates asked him to a cards night. He didn't want to go but I told him he should and to have fun. So he went. 12.30 am Easter Saturday morning my Mum passed away. I rang Shayne . He told me he was leaving right there and then. In the mean time I made more calls and did what needed to be done. a couple of hours passed when we realized that Shayne was not home yet. No answer on his phone . Friends said he already left. They went looking for him . They found him half way home . A Van had hit him and dragged him and is Triumph under it. My Husband died on impact. One hour and 15 minutes after Mum. I'm not telling you all this to get sympathy . I don't need it!! Needless to say I was a wreck!. I became withdrawn and a recluse. And I so very much hated the Big Man Upstairs in a way you wouldn't believe. Over time Family , Friends and my Psychologist talked about chat sites and how it might help with my healing process . It did for awhile. Until I came across a man that I told my story to. The first time I opened up. He took advantage of this. It cut me up. On that site my name was " CandyLips" . It's what Shayne called me since the minute we met. They were the last words I hear from him . Feeling gutted I left the site to many protests from many great friends I made there. Family etc said try again . I did. I found this site. But having been soul crushed I changed my name to MissLed. That's what he did and his motives were cruel. I left that site as it felt like the right thing to do . Even though I struggle every moment of every day with my pain , loss and grief , I WILL come out of this stronger and with my head held high. I just didn't realize how much of a long and hard process this was going to be . I will say though that being on this very site and being blessed to chat with so many wonderful people have very literally saved my life!! You have lifted my spirits and pulled me out of my reclusive state . I have returned to work although I don't financially need to. I didn't know how much I missed itI've also been out and about with Family and Friends. As my Psychologist tells me ...Baby Steps. I thank Stan for this site as it has made me get the courage to get my life on the right track again .I am stronger and more confident to be around people irl again and for this I am grateful
. My story is not something I readily share as why would I add a sob story to any one elses worries. I will leave this site as it is plain to see that i am strong enough to do so
But i will not go without my say!! Don't be a victim to Bullies on line or irl!! I may not have the level of education as these Bullies but I have a heart and it beats true!! I'm not normally one to make waves but enough is enough!! I don't normally say bad things about people ( I did once and it didn't sit well with me ) but I am struggling with finding something nice to say about these Bullies!! And that's is saying something ..Well to me it is . Don't let them stop you from being who you are!! Don't let the Evil in the world stop you from showing love to others !! Hold your head up and stand your ground!! My thoughts and heart go out to the ones I love and respect and cherish on here . You all know who you are
I thank you all for being a part of what has made me come back to LIFE!! I wish you all the very best of every endeavor you meet
...XOX Cassidy
P.s...Shine on regardless!!
xox...Say what you will Bullies as I will not reply. My side of this conversation is over!![/QU
Fun fact- the girl in the pic was bent over!* Attention Chatters*
I will not bend over for Bullies and their Ultimatums !
Stating a fact is not childish behavior. My comment was simply a fact.I have been on many chat sites and have never seen such childish high school behavior!
Every thing I do in this place is to encourage women to be confident, strong, and feel empowered. I only call out people (no matter their sex) when they're detrimental to this place.I come from a family where we support our females. We encourage them and lift their spirits not tear them down .
It was not found on a nasty site, I'm not sure what that even means. I feel like you're bullying me by calling me a bully, I never even talked to you. No one has approached you and given you an ultimatum, stop being dramatic. You have turned this into more than it ever was. Who knows, maybe it'll even become it's own thread in the drama section now?!One of my pics has been found on other sites...Nasty sites. Sites I would never post on . since these Bullies found it they have rallied together and decided that if I don't comply to their ultimatums I must there fore be "Fake". And If I still don't comply I must not only be "Fake" but also "Male".
I'm not sure what a teeny bopper pound hunt is. Again, no one has bullied you. And no one has given you an ultimatum, but if you'd like to tell us what it is, I'm really interested in knowing.This is an "Adult" site with adult content and adult conversations not a teeny bopper pound hound hunt!! Like many people in this situation say...I don't have to prove anything to anyone let alone Bullies with Ultimatums !! Seem's to be the appropriate response . These Bullies are " Ladies"
FCN isn't a topic I discuss with friends and family. I didn't know your name. And I didn't even mention you at all.How proud your Family and Friends must be of your actions. I feel nothing but utter disgust and contempt for you and your actions. not even a pm to say .. Hey Cass ...Guess what?... But no. It was done in public!!.
@PheonixxxMonroe @WomenRfromVenus did you know we have a nickname? Should we get jackets??" The Pound Hounds" are not worth it.
....okI own you nothing!
This is called emotional persuasion. Emotions should be left outside of the internet.Two years ago on Easter Saturday Morning ...
You shouldn't tell internet people your name....XOX CassidyP.s...Shine on regardless!!
xox...Say what you will Bullies as I will not reply. My side of this conversation is over!!
LOL I've actually tried to be decent about the situation. Since Im not hooking up with anyone on the forum. I don't overly care about the real vs unreal. It does make for juicy gossip tho.@PheonixxxMonroe @WomenRfromVenus did you know we have a nickname? Should we get jackets??
Nice one*burps*
Fun fact- the girl in the pic was bent over!
Stating a fact is not childish behavior. My comment was simply a fact.
Every thing I do in this place is to encourage women to be confident, strong, and feel empowered. I only call out people (no matter their sex) when they're detrimental to this place.
It was not found on a nasty site, I'm not sure what that even means. I feel like you're bullying me by calling me a bully, I never even talked to you. No one has approached you and given you an ultimatum, stop being dramatic. You have turned this into more than it ever was. Who knows, maybe it'll even become it's own thread in the drama section now?!
I'm not sure what a teeny bopper pound hunt is. Again, no one has bullied you. And no one has given you an ultimatum, but if you'd like to tell us what it is, I'm really interested in knowing.
FCN isn't a topic I discuss with friends and family. I didn't know your name. And I didn't even mention you at all.
@PheonixxxMonroe @WomenRfromVenus did you know we have a nickname? Should we get jackets??
....ok
This is called emotional persuasion. Emotions should be left outside of the internet.
You shouldn't tell internet people your name.![]()