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Yea i have neighbors that are always REALLY nice no matter what happens. You could hit their dog with your car and they'll be like "oh its ok we know it was an accident." And im thinking, "these people must be cannibals or something" hahaha its bad i know, but i feel like if nothing bothers you you're either really good at hiding it, or you have some deep dark secret haha but its entirely possible im just the one thats messed up :)
lol Yeah I get that lol :) But sometimes its more a case if "Why does one have to fit in the same box" with a little mix of " If you don't laugh then you have time to stop and think...and then ya cry." And who wants to cry all the time . :) xox
 
Why must people hide their profiles from everyone but who they follow? Like I get privacy, sure, but that, sheesh, unless you're hiding something whats the point? You barely follow anyone anyway, bastard!:rolleyes:
LOLOL Yeah lol And just when I want to read their profiles too lolol :) It's like dam lol Now I'm going to have to ask questions lol :)
 
I expect it’s from the same men who brag about being a woman’s first sexual partner. Newsflash: you may be her first, but you’re unlikely to be her best :rolleyes:

You just might be right. I just find it distasteful of people to randomly spam a female's wall and ask to be her first follow. Welcome them to the site, say hi, or write something cordial, but just don't be demanding you know? Okay I'm done with my little rant. : )
 
You just might be right. I just find it distasteful of people to randomly spam a female's wall and ask to be her first follow. Welcome them to the site, say hi, or write something cordial, but just don't be demanding you know? Okay I'm done with my little rant. : )
Rant away, you’re preaching to the converted.

When you can see they have done that to dozens of new users, to me it shows that they are merely ‘collecting’ women and have no real interest in the actual person. Which is surely the point..?
 
Rant away, you’re preaching to the converted.

When you can see they have done that to dozens of new users, to me it shows that they are merely ‘collecting’ women and have no real interest in the actual person. Which is surely the point..?

You are absolutely right! In my opinion there is nothing to be gained by getting a follow from every new member. Is that person thinking to themselves "Wow I have 200 women following me now"? I am interested in getting to know people when they intrigue me, not just wanting people to follow me.
 
There's something that few dont consider and that is that Covid 19 affects everyone in one way or another. Some more than others. For months our coming and going have been limited. There is little social interaction we hide behind masks because it is safer. Meanwhile, people we know and love are dying. It makes us all struggle to see the more positive side of everything. There are challenges to our mental health. We are less tolerant and short of temper. We all long for the normality before Covid 19. Add to that that politics and work etc also have an influence on us. That is why it is so important that we apply more patience, try to be more tolerant. We all have our own way of dealing with the new normal we have been experiencing for almost a year. So before we get angry or impatient or intolerant lets try to take into account that nothing is normal and everyone struggles to go on as normal.

Thats a big little thought...
 
You are absolutely right! In my opinion there is nothing to be gained by getting a follow from every new member. Is that person thinking to themselves "Wow I have 200 women following me now"? I am interested in getting to know people when they intrigue me, not just wanting people to follow me.
Yeah, I don’t get it. But then I don’t have Facebook, and I feel that culture is somewhat borrowed from there. Some kind of numbers competition. Maybe they see them as conquests? I don’t know o_O
 
I've been single all my life. I often wonder how much more time I really need to find myself, and then I realize, I still don't know what I want, only what I don't want.

Side note: when will I decide to start expressing interest in guys in my day-to-day life? I only know I'll have left the nest once again before that happens.
You'll get the answers when your ready for them :) xox
 

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