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Dirtybugger666 said:
Couple of weeks back I met this girl, she was a quadruple amputee, cute but sad.
She was sitting in her wheelchair at the edge of the river. I struck up a conversation with her, and she said she was depressed because no one thought of her as a sexual being. She told me she had never been kissed by a man before. So I kissed her. It wasn't much, but it raised her spirits. After some more talk she left for home.

I saw her again just the other day. Same story, sitting in the chair looking miserable. I said hi, and gave her a hug.
She told me the last week was horrible, she kept getting aroused, but could do nothing about it. She wanted to end her misery, which is why she came to the river.
I tried to convince her there was more to life. But she kept telling me she wants to be fucked.
It was sad but I managed to tip her into the river.
She's fucked now.
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Oh my god what? Why?
 
It's a joke hun. Some people need to realise that everyone has issues and not involving them, talking to them, showing compassion, could lead to tragic ends.
 
Ok. What about the 2 vomits walking down the street, they pass a club and one starts crying.
Wtf is wrong with U?
This is where I was brought up.
 
I left for basic training two weeks after I graduated High School back in 2015 and have been with it ever since. Sometimes I wonder how differently things could be if I hadn’t just jumped straight into a military career.
 
When new people join forums they act like it is like a sex candy store and go crazy .... no reading, no observing, no rules followed... then normaly a regular will finaly stand up and say ok enough is enough and then the new members will feel offended. In someways I can understand the exitement and discovering a sex site where people is openminded, sex related comments the gifs ..etc ... but to all those new members trust me you will fit in faster and easier and be welcome more into the FCN crazy if you take time to
1. Read the very first post of each thread and also a few pages of that thread to get a feeling off the thread and people who post there.
2. If you take time to read peoples profiles most regulars have info there of they like/dont likes and get a feeling with whom you deal with
3. To take time and just read in general a bit and observe befor you start to post
You will then make less mistakes break less rules and in general have a smoother start.
Some respect and consideration do go a long way even on a sex site. Thats more than a little though i know o_O
 
Ever struggle with the feeling that you really want to say something to help but also knows 101% it will be a wasted of time and energy ?? So you just witness things and feel like your hands is cut off.... they say choose your battles wisely and i truely live my life by that rule otherwise you may get tangled up in things that is not your monkeys does not make it easier to witness things you know is hurtful ..
 
SweetLesGirl said:
Ever struggle with the feeling that you really want to say something to help but also knows 101% it will be a wasted of time and energy ?? So you just witness things and feel like your hands is cut off.... they say choose your battles wisely and i truely live my life by that rule otherwise you may get tangled up in things that is not your monkeys does not make it easier to witness things you know is hurtful ..
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That is so true: I find it so hard to try to be supportive, knowing that probably nothing I say will help. And I am incredibly bad at accepting words of support myself. But there are some people who can just be there for you regardless - I think it is rare, a special skill, and I am lucky to have some such people in my life. I don't think all of us can do it though.
 
I can understand your concern, and feel the same. Had to reply coz U said not your monkeys. Only ever heard that phrase not my monkey,not my circus from one other person. It's a favourite of mine.
 
Sarah_1964 said:
That is so true: I find it so hard to try to be supportive, knowing that probably nothing I say will help. And I am incredibly bad at accepting words of support myself. But there are some people who can just be there for you regardless - I think it is rare, a special skill, and I am lucky to have some such people in my life. I don't think all of us can do it though.
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Being there for people in silence is easy for me not everybody want a ear full everytime they just want the knowledge there is someone they can turn too and for them its enough.... i however struggle with those who want to claim my attention and time 24/7 for support and is more drainers than anything else nothing you say or do inspire them to fight or try to fight they refuse all help and for every solution they have a BUT.. and they feed off your energy in the end you the one ending up depress and sad and tired when that happens they normaly just move on to the next person who is willing to provide them with some eneregy to feed on. Those is the kind of people who dont need you but what you can offer when its drained too the bottom they move on.
 
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SweetLesGirl said:
Being there for people in silence is easy for me not everybody want a ear full everytime they just want the knowledge there is someone they can turn too and for them its enough.... i however struggle with those who want to claim my attention and time 24/7 for support and is more drainers than anything else nothing you say or do inspire them to fight or try to fight they refuse all help and for every solution they have a BUT.. and they feed off your energy in the end you the one ending up depress and sad and tired when that happens they normaly just move on to the next person who is willing to provide them with some eneregy to feed on. Those is the kind of people who dont need you but what you can offer when its drained too the bottom they move on.
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I know you are talking about me !! You didn’t have to post about it tho geeeez
 
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