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AB1978 said:
You are right. As my husband married me because of his health problem and I had good insurance. I wanted him to love me as much as I did him so I lost who I was to become what he wanted and it isn't enough, I realized after a lot of years in misery that I never will be enough. When I meet someone who sweeps me off my feet and makes me feel like I am all that matters, I cling, but the real me shines through. And I feel amazing!! Occasionally things happen that knock me back, so I opt to talk about it instead of let it gnaw. Obviously this time I handled myself wrong and cost myself something beautiful. But it doesn't matter he doesn't want me back and never will, I am just speaking out so hopefully I don't drown in my thoughts.

You ladies are very appreciated! Your kind words and wisdom are very comforting. Thank you both for taking the time... xoxoxo
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I understand this more than I wish I did...
 
I truly feel like this world is slowly going insane. I express myself online because I can't in real life, and I find that really sad, quite frankly. How am I supposed to be comfortable in my own shoes when I can't even express myself/be myself around others? I'm heavier, I get that, by why feel the need to bring it up to my attention 24/7? I'm pretty self-aware, thank you very much. The other day when I was getting my Monroe pierced, the piercer said the bigger stud would look better on me because of my size. Was that necessary? No. Do I see why he said it, probably thinking it wouldn't hurt my feelings? Yes. Be self-aware of what you say to people, and you're all good!

Secondly, I had two co-workers at work acting like complete jackasses to me, only because I'm overweight.. and they made sure to make that clear. Weight has NOTHING to do with a person. Their whole personality/way of living does not revolve around weight. Stop acting like it does. Just because someones slightly heavier than you/skinnier than you, doesn't give you permission to treat them like they're nothing.

Thirdly, I feel that weight is something taken too seriously. If you are someone thats complete opposite of what I said above, congratulations good sir, you have some common decency! Though, if you are one to like curves/heavier people/bbw's, please DO NOT say they're 'confident.' It isn't a compliment. I can see how some people think it is, but at the same time, its pretty derogatory. If someone went up to someone skinnier and said "You're so confident for eating healthy! Congrats," I'm pretty sure that person wouldn't be happy. Anyway, just be a decent human, respect boundaries, and don't have expectations for your own ignorant self.
 
Ughhh I don't appreciate waking up to having my ears feeling clogged and hearing stupid noises in my ears too. I'm guessing it's my sinuses...
 
Soooo @Jinxy told me in week I should really clean up my phone a bit .... since its quiet everywhere and not much going on I decided to do just that ... I just delete 7568 items from my phone that was a mix between photo, downloads, gifs, videos etc and it did not even make a dent in what is on my phone :confused::eek:o_O
 
SweetLesGirl said:
Soooo @Jinxy told me in week I should really clean up my phone a bit .... since its quiet everywhere and not much going on I decided to do just that ... I just delete 7568 items from my phone that was a mix between photo, downloads, gifs, videos etc and it did not even make a dent in what is on my phone :confused::eek:o_O
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Lol. Love it. Your storage must be huge.
 
SubSoph said:
I truly feel like this world is slowly going insane. I express myself online because I can't in real life, and I find that really sad, quite frankly. How am I supposed to be comfortable in my own shoes when I can't even express myself/be myself around others? I'm heavier, I get that, by why feel the need to bring it up to my attention 24/7? I'm pretty self-aware, thank you very much. The other day when I was getting my Monroe pierced, the piercer said the bigger stud would look better on me because of my size. Was that necessary? No. Do I see why he said it, probably thinking it wouldn't hurt my feelings? Yes. Be self-aware of what you say to people, and you're all good!

Secondly, I had two co-workers at work acting like complete jackasses to me, only because I'm overweight.. and they made sure to make that clear. Weight has NOTHING to do with a person. Their whole personality/way of living does not revolve around weight. Stop acting like it does. Just because someones slightly heavier than you/skinnier than you, doesn't give you permission to treat them like they're nothing.

Thirdly, I feel that weight is something taken too seriously. If you are someone thats complete opposite of what I said above, congratulations good sir, you have some common decency! Though, if you are one to like curves/heavier people/bbw's, please DO NOT say they're 'confident.' It isn't a compliment. I can see how some people think it is, but at the same time, its pretty derogatory. If someone went up to someone skinnier and said "You're so confident for eating healthy! Congrats," I'm pretty sure that person wouldn't be happy. Anyway, just be a decent human, respect boundaries, and don't have expectations for your own ignorant self.
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Hugs.
 
On Friday night I was putting cream on my hands so I took off all my rings and left them off… so I have had no rings on all weekend and it feels so good, but because they are all rings with reason and sentiment I have to put them back on ( and they are all really pretty) but it feels so good not wearing them. o_O
 
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