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Just a little thought... reading throught post and things over the last 4 years I have notice that the word "hate" is throw around FCN so easy ... is such a big strong emotion to attach to people just because you are not their cup of tea ... I mean we can't like everybody but to say you hate all you don't like or don't have any intention or intrest to talk to wow.... to not like or when some people is not your cup of tea is very normal does not mean you "hate" them it simply means is not your kind of people with who you connect ..js
 
Just a little thought... reading throught post and things over the last 4 years I have notice that the word "hate" is throw around FCN so easy ... is such a big strong emotion to attach to people just because you are not their cup of tea ... I mean we can't like everybody but to say you hate all you don't like or don't have any intention or intrest to talk to wow.... to not like or when some people is not your cup of tea is very normal does not mean you "hate" them it simply means is not your kind of people with who you connect ..js
So if you're my cup of tea, can I have a sip? :rolleyes::cool:
 
Hi....

So tomorrow is the last day of this year, and what stayed with me most this past year, actually the past few years, is how much people are changing.

With that I mean that people are becoming less caring, less thoughtfull, and less smart. People live for themselves, to have more of everything than their neigbours have. A polite "Hello" is fast becoming myth.

Me, me, me, because everyone else..... They don't matter.

People stopped looking back. To where they were, and with them the world was 5, 10 or 15 years ago. And because of that, people stopped learning.

Time is going fast, and nothing will bring back that hour people lost in traffic or at a busy mall, so people tend to do more in less time, because somehow they feel pressure. But they do not realise that the pressure they are feeling is caused by themselves. Because they choose to be everywhere first.

But.... Is it really that bad to lose an hour of your day?

Take your time to waste a moment...
Don't be like the masses...
Always hope...
Do not fear, fear leads to the dark side...
Always respect others...
Go healthy crazy every now and then...
Don't spread false rumors...
Don't talk behind peoples backs...
Stay modest...
Trust in God...
Do not ask for anything except help...
Don't think that you deserve the best, others will do that for you...
Use your carlights...
Dare to be horny...

And last but not least......
Stay safe, healthy and sexy in 2022.

I hope you all will find what your hearts are missing.

Now fuck off. ;)
 
Sometimes, people are the worst. You go from despising them to loving them, or the other way around (most likely). Waiting for them to reach out to you because you dont want to reach out first... blah blah blah. Its all bullshit.

Ya know what else is bullshit? When grown ass mothafuckin men act like boys. Grow the fuck up, or don't talk to me.

With that being said.. all you wonderful people (despite few of you) reach out if you ever need anything!
 
I have found that I have a lot less resentments if I communicate strong boundaries with others and don't engage with people if it's not in my best interest. Sometimes loving people means not engaging with them if they can't respect my boundaries.

On another note, this is not a good season for my side hustle. Too many people getting sick and now all this snow. But I'm grateful for the extra extra extra time at home before school starts back up!
 
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I'm wondering if there's somewhere over the rainbow, as it were, after a certain age, waiting for me. People really glorify youth and act like aging/getting older is some sort of personal failing or crime, but my twenties...really haven't been that good so far.

On the flipside: at least I haven't been in my teens for some time though; I have more mental resilience now than I did then, and I can't imagine how I would've coped with all the shit going on now back then.
Growing older had been fabulous for me. I learned in psychology the human body typically reaches its physical peak @35, and the mind reaches its peak @40. I'm 39 so clearly you should listen to me :cool: Also, sex gets sooooo much better because there's less insecurity, more confidence, more "why tf not try out this outrageously amazing sex position"!! Sex aside, wisdom is power but only if you use it.
 
Lately it occurs to me
What a long strange trip it’s been.
But I believe it’s time for me to fly.
I cannot rest from travel: I will drink
Life to the lees. All times I have enjoy’d
Greatly, have suffer’d greatly, both with those
That loved me, and alone, on the shore.
Leaves are falling all around
It’s time I was on my way
Thanks to you I’m much obliged
For such a pleasant stay.
 
If you look hard enough, you can always find something to complain/be down about. Instead let's stop finding those things. Sure there is a lot of bad out there and I understand we all have things/issues which happen to us. Not saying we shouldn't rant or complain at times because it does do us good to get things off our chest.

This thought applies to me just the same as it would apply to anyone.
 
For the last few weeks I’ve be watching and listening to how my daughter interacts on Instagram and SnapChat and how cruel teens are to each other online. It seriously concerns me and how they will go up, what they think is okay to do, and to down right provoke each other online.
Makes me very sad.
 

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