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I have constantly been made to feel since I was a kid to prove my intelligence and work hard to get ahead. So I guess I do have some resentment towards those who dont have to worry about how the world sees them and dont even try to reciprocate in a conversation. Afterall how do get to know someone and make a human connection if you dont to them
 
I was an outcast as a kid, seemingly without any friends, and I felt that I did not fit in anywhere. at 53 I often still feel like I do not fit in.
 
Corsair48 said:
I was an outcast as a kid, seemingly without any friends, and I felt that I did not fit in anywhere. at 53 I often still feel like I do not fit in.
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♥️ you are definitely not alone. I was a moving target at school. The only time I felt like I fit in was college. I am fortunate to have made lifelong friends from there, as for online. It's tough and they let you know you dont belong or fit in. Im glad we met and you are in my tribe ♥️ just dist your shoulders off. And keep being you
 
People shouldn't freak out or fret because someone doesn't follow/friend them here anymore. Sometimes people drift apart for legitimate reasons. Other times you just stop interacting with someone altogether and it doesn't make sense to follow/friend the person.

*Rambling thoughts concluded for now.*
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
People shouldn't freak out or fret because someone doesn't follow/friend them here anymore. Sometimes people drift apart for legitimate reasons. Other times you just stop interacting with someone altogether and it doesn't make sense to follow/friend the person.

*Rambling thoughts concluded for now.*
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I agree 100% but this is about feeling ostracized from the larger group. I dont know about Cosair but ive been here over three years. People are polite and friendly, but often effectively ignored my posts about anything i have said of any substance and fall back on telling me of my nice smile because they have chosen not to know anything really about me. While i read about and about their travels, families, health, relationships and ask questions. Some just reciprocate by telling me about my nice oral hygiene.

It is noticeable especially after years when you are not invited to play in a reindeer games. The comments were not made to offend or criticize, just expressing how one can feel alone on a site full of people. Its an odd feeling at times.
 
Bennettrose said:
I agree 100% but this is about feeling ostracized from the larger group. I dont know about Cosair but ive been here over three years. People are polite and friendly, but often effectively ignored my posts about anything i have said of any substance and fall back on telling me of my nice smile because they have chosen not to know anything really about me. While i read about and about their travels, families, health, relationships and ask questions. Some just reciprocate by telling me about my nice oral hygiene.

It is noticeable especially after years when you are not invited to play in a reindeer games. The comments were not made to offend or criticize, just expressing how one can feel alone on a site full of people. Its an odd feeling at times.
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Understand what you are saying. My post was completely independent of anyone else's and just my own thoughts.
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
Understand what you are saying. My post was completely independent of anyone else's and just my own thoughts.
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i understand, no worries. and let's jut say i have a special affinity for the man, he's quiet, intelligent, maybe eccentric, but when those shenanigans on this threat happened. and that lunatic stalker of mine wrote the most hateful and disgusting things about me, my alleged friends fell silent. probably laughing and agreeing, but not speaking up. he did. he's a sensitive person with courage and a backbone. and i empathize. you and me though, there is no conflict. we all have opinions and are thankfully free to express them. i agree with most of what you have say and today was really no different my friend,
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
People shouldn't freak out or fret because someone doesn't follow/friend them here anymore. Sometimes people drift apart for legitimate reasons. Other times you just stop interacting with someone altogether and it doesn't make sense to follow/friend the person.

*Rambling thoughts concluded for now.*
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Kinda why I have a new mindset. People do come and go and not everyone is meant to stay around so it's just life. Remember the good memories u created with whoever and be happy and just carry on and look forward to making new memories with someone else. :)
 
When you are active on internet web sites you need to realize you are going to be dealing with people who come from everywhere not only from different cultures, traditions, races and religions but also from different levels of life. Those who had opportunities, those who were less fortunate, those who had a good education at home and those who were simply left to the grace of life to survive due to circumstances. Therefore, it is important to keep your emotions in place and not get too involved emotionally. It is also important to maintain a healthy balance between your real life and your online life there is a fine line between the two and one must be careful that the online life does not affect your reality in an unhealthy way.
 
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