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cosmos fields are like nature's confetti you feel triumphant between pastels that tickle your skin and remind you how something simple is actually first-hand special.
To the person, and you know who you are. I will never forget you, or hate you, I will always smile at our late night conversations that made me light up and laugh. Even your blue suede shoes. I will appreciate all the real world advice.
As much as you deny, the emotional abuse, I hope you find the peace, love, and self acceptance you long for. You are not a bad person, just seek too hard for what doesn't exist. I wish you much love for what you were once were to me and I wish you the peace and happiness you are seeking.
Take care. Love BR
As much as you deny, the emotional abuse, I hope you find the peace, love, and self acceptance you long for. You are not a bad person, just seek too hard for what doesn't exist. I wish you much love for what you were once were to me and I wish you the peace and happiness you are seeking.
Take care. Love BR
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How do you people have such wise thoughts? Here I am, contemplating which cars have the cutest and meanest tail lights-bumper faces, and whether diluted toothpaste could be used as mouthwash.
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What's happening in Ukraine is wrong, so wrong. It shouldn't be this way. No cold-hearted, vindictive, hateful monster should get to command armies and order them to invade, take over, kill.
Soldiers, civilians and children are dying. It makes no sense, it's just twisted lies. I get sick - literally - watching the news and can only take so much at a time.
We have so much that we take for granted, that we don't even notice, stuck in our little rat race to the top. I feel lucky and I'm grateful to be living in a place where I'm not in constant fear of deadly violence.
Soldiers, civilians and children are dying. It makes no sense, it's just twisted lies. I get sick - literally - watching the news and can only take so much at a time.
We have so much that we take for granted, that we don't even notice, stuck in our little rat race to the top. I feel lucky and I'm grateful to be living in a place where I'm not in constant fear of deadly violence.
As much as I say i have written off men and love, I think I really blew a chance with an intelligent, educated, and foreign man, just my type, who was interested in me because of freaking hormonal mood swings and simple distrust. Im kicking myself now
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You're being too hard on yourself.
No one knows the future. We can imagine scenarios, we can daydream of timelines where everything is idyllic, but none of that is real. It's all made up. It's what we wish for, what we hope for. Life, however, is messy.
Fact of the matter is - the future doesn't exist. What we think up happens in our minds. There is no way to know if you blew a chance or if it turned out for the better.
Someone can check a lot of our criteria but like the expression goes: "the devil is in the details".
They might say "I share chores with my partner". But reality shows they share it once a month.
They might say "I'll be there when you need me". But reality shows they're free after they're done gaming.
They might say "I love to go on adventures" But reality shows those adventures are confined to a 5 mile radius from home.
My point is: You really don't know if you blew it...It might seem like it, but it may very well not be. There is no way of knowing that... at all.
I had to let that sink in . You're right. If I look at the last mistake I made he said many things that were not true and also turned out to be a viscous narcissist who likes to play manipulative games such as giving the silent treatment while chasing 24 yr old girls and lonely housewives when I really could have at least used what little friendship was left between us.
I guess you never truly know what is in store for you and perhaps better not to say I blew a chance at something that didn't manifest. Thank you for the reality check. It was needed.
I guess you never truly know what is in store for you and perhaps better not to say I blew a chance at something that didn't manifest. Thank you for the reality check. It was needed.
When we let go we empty space in our head for better things in life. Holding on to revenge thoughts, anger, hurt etc. takes up space in our head that affects our whole body and life in an unhealthy way. It's true that people hurt and disappoint us. It's also ok to process the emotions it's a process of letting go and forgiving ... but feeding those feelings with constant negative thoughts is like throwing oil on the fire. Then there is a never-ending vomiting of words with which we want to hurt back with which we try to guilt trip them and those who have done nothing to us we end up hurting too because we are constantly feeding that hurt. It's an endless toxic cycle that brings us no cure. Letting go means working to process what we feel does not mean taking revenge. At the end of the day you pave a path of self destruction that causes people to distance themselves because negative emotions and actions that come and go and come and go like a river in a flood can start to engulf the people around you and make them tired make them feel drained of any energy to try anything. Empty the space you rent out in your head for free to negative things you can not change and focus on what you can control.
The Ukraine El Comandante is making me cry with his amazing example of leadership the way he fight for his people the way he humbles himself to protect them. Leaders around the world should pay attention as he is just outstanding as a leader.
I never read up on things as it blur my view because everybody and dr have a different view ... i simply learn as i go and deal with things as i go and learn from them and share what i learn. I pay attention on what work for me and what not. I rather read things that lift me up than things that is bleak ... but thats me.
I may understand maybe better than you know i simply just dont share why i do understand some things as i dont like to share personal issues on fcn because it turns in to wapons that comes back and you get troll about what people dont know they cant use to be mean or bully or troll you.
I am sorry that you feel hurt and dissapointed by some people here who was not sincere in they actions. Thats why I say one should be careful how much you share and too whom because it may turn on you.
Its a sex site most people is here to sext and get off to find some escape from the day ... is very rare to find people here who sincerely will mean what they say many will say the things you want to hear in order to get they wank or whatever and then move on. Others will use it to manipulate and guilt trip you. FCN have learn me not to trust people on line and keep my distance. I keep my emotions in tack and my private issues and things private.
I hope you feel better soon and find the peace you seek. X
To be really honest, we are all waiting for this moment…
Just a shame only me will know it as she have abondon fcnTo be really honest, we are all waiting for this moment…
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You raise a good point. The one thing I liked was feeling free to express my feelings in a semi anonymous place where I could share things i keep sectet in my real life. But as I already learned there are scuzzy and smarmy individuals who will turn your words around and use them against you later. Hurt can cloud one's thinking when you let it
And thats why you should not act on emosion walk away drink a cup of tea calm down then reconsider what you want to say and why x
so true . and up until lately i did that. all of this bs has gotten to me and made me lose my sleek side. i will re group though
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