For most of my time here I have mostly known for being quiet. I only had two close friends, both male, that I interacted with. One left a couple of months ago and the other is still here, t though not as close.. Because I like being here and mostly everyone I have been making myself be less bashful . The one thing about being a quiet and bashful person is that you observe more. And what I have observed is that it looks like male members have less conflicts than many of the women here, myself included. Simply put that part sucks and it's a shame because there are so many likable and loving women here