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SweetAlexandra said:
I have a question for everyone. What would you do if this person was your friend and all she did was lie to you, and cause you drama? Would you forgive her? I forgive, and forget easily but she crossed the line. In other cases I would but all this person was fake, lie, cause , and drama etc. I have a hard time trusting people from my past but I easily forgive if I like you but she gets underneath my skin bc of the hatred I have towards her. Am I doing the right thing? I think I am bc what she did to is beyond cruel. I am done with people treating me like shit and hurting me.
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Forgive, for your own sake, but protect yourself. Forgiveness means letting go of anger and/hurt feelings, it does not mean you have to keep that person in your life so they can do more damage.
 
Corsair48 said:
Forgive, for your own sake, but protect yourself. Forgiveness means letting go of anger and/hurt feelings, it does not mean you have to keep that person in your life so they can do more damage.
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You have a good point there. I have so much built up hatred, and anger towards some people that build up inside me when they hurt me. It is very hard to even forgive for my own sake. They do severe damage to my self esteem, trust issues, and make me confused in life more everyday.
 
SweetAlexandra said:
I have a question for everyone. What would you do if this person was your friend and all she did was lie to you, and cause you drama? Would you forgive her? I forgive, and forget easily but she crossed the line. In other cases I would but all this person was fake, lie, cause , and drama etc. I have a hard time trusting people from my past but I easily forgive if I like you but she gets underneath my skin bc of the hatred I have towards her. Am I doing the right thing? I think I am bc what she did to is beyond cruel. I am done with people treating me like shit and hurting me.
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You teach others how to treat you by what you accept. Forgiveness is a gift, not a right.
 
What if your asshole had taste buds to detect bad foods only, which would cause you to eat healthy?
 
I've finally decided to watch "after life". It's not my preferred show, though I normally like Ricky Gervais' humor, and why would anyone want to watch a grumpy old man, right? :eek: also, it's rather predictable... And than suddenly, there comes a moment like this:

A widow sits on a bench and explains to him

"I'd rather live missing him, than him missing me. That's how much I love him".

Just writing the quote down a week later still works like a punch in the guts for me...
 
Having a day where I am choosing to be mindful. I have someone in my life who regularly disappoints or blows me off like today. Instead I am making the conscious decision to focus on those who make me a priority as much as I make them and appreciate them for choosing to be present.
One cannot grow if they focus on the negative and overlook the blessings they do have. I get it finally ❤️
 
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