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Chris_90 said:
It depends on the person, some people seem to move on quite easy when people leave.. my own person, if I’ve in any way became friends with someone… I sure do miss people who leave for a while or even delete their account.. I don’t feel the need to name names, but there are quite a few good people who I damn sure still miss here.
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You are right. There are a few who don't come here that I miss. Even ones I don't see on as much as I used to I miss.

Thalassa said:
I don't think so, at least not to the people you've played extensively with on threads, smiled and laughed with, people you shared life stories, experiences and personal things with.

I still miss folks that left years ago. I remember those I befriended, enjoyed, interacted and bonded with, and I wonder how they are doing, what they're up to, and hope they are happy with themselves and with life. I don't write about it on threads, but it doesn't mean it doesn't cross my mind (e.g. sometimes when my odometer creeps up, I think of you, lol.) I'm sure it is the same for others.

As members come and go, the feel of fcn changes - sometimes jiving with us more, sometimes less. There is a nostalgia for those times when the fun times were at its apex and when bonds were strongest. I have fond memories of those times.

We miss those we connect(ed) with. Inevitably.
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I think you are probably right, Thal. It just seems at times people move on at times and forget. Perhaps we don't and just keep it to ourselves instead of expressing it.
 
"Bestfriend" isn't just a word. A bestfriend is someone who's there for you, no matter what. Thick or thin. I can label anyone as a friend. But a bestfriend..? That's something that needs to be earned. A bestfriend knows me sometimes more than I know myself. You can trust them with anything and everything. I may have a bunch of "quote friends", but only a few that I can count on completely. And I cherish those few very much ☺️
 
Chris_90 said:
Maybe it’s just me.. but I get worried when someone’s last post says she has corona.. and we haven’t heard from her in quite some time..

Hope @jen50 is doing well
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Hopefully she's well. Covid is rough. I had it two weeks ago or so and it wipes you out.
 
It's oddly fascinating yet sad when people you used to click and connect with no longer talk to you. Now, I'm not blaming it on those people, because I'm sure I have had a huge impact on the non-communitive part as well. The worst part in this situation, is I'm scared to reach out to them because there are always questions..
What if I bore them?
What if they no longer want to chat?
What if I'm an inconvience to them?
... you get the point.

I find it weird how people can go from interacting nearly everyday, to only chatting once a month.

Though, that is life. People change, move on, find someone better to chat with, ghost you, etc. I feel like I've overstayed my welcome, but just wanted to say this: if anyone is going through this same thing, I am so sorry. Just know it does get better. There are so many other people in this world willing to take time to talk to you.

P.S: I've done this same exact thing to many people on here, so I am so fucking sorry. Just know you are still on my mind, and I miss our chats!
 
What if it was okay to eat squirrels and people would hunt them every week in their backyards, have squirrel bbq's, etc?
 
They say you should just be yourself, the problem is that myself is often quiet and socially clueless and I'm not sure that is a particularly good strategy. This is meant to be humorous, but there is a certain amount of truth in it, too.
 
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