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LillyK99 said:
Don't let anyone tell you that you're goals aren't achievable. Let yourself decide your path regardless of others opinions. I find it interesting that I've let the opinions of my enemies carry so much weight. I'm April it'll be 5 years since me and my sons were in a homeless shelter. Yet in just a few months I'll be making more money than my ex husband ever did. Maybe it sounds foolish but I set out on my career path to do something meaningful but also so I won't ever have to rely on a man ever again. I was tired of struggling. But because of perseverance, encouragement, and the craziest unraveling of what I believe is God's way of reminding me that he's got me, I am blessed more than I ever imagined at this point in my life.

Oh and Social Work degrees can make the moolah too ❤️
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More power to you lilly❤️
 
Most of my friends are getting paid way better than me and when i think of that , i start scolding myself to not grab oppurtunities at that time..

But now since i have been working for almost 2 years , i realize i have my own path and i will achieve the greater goals my way..

Be it about getting a high paying job or getting laid..
I believe i just have to prepare myself to act then when it comes my way!!!!
 
LillyK99 said:
Don't let anyone tell you that you're goals aren't achievable. Let yourself decide your path regardless of others opinions. I find it interesting that I've let the opinions of my enemies carry so much weight. I'm April it'll be 5 years since me and my sons were in a homeless shelter. Yet in just a few months I'll be making more money than my ex husband ever did. Maybe it sounds foolish but I set out on my career path to do something meaningful but also so I won't ever have to rely on a man ever again. I was tired of struggling. But because of perseverance, encouragement, and the craziest unraveling of what I believe is God's way of reminding me that he's got me, I am blessed more than I ever imagined at this point in my life.

Oh and Social Work degrees can make the moolah too ❤️
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You started at the bottom and carved your way to the top with perseverance. Many of us have been privileged to watch you tirelessly press forward each day and keep going through tears and discouragement. There were days when you didn't want to anymore, but you knew you had to if you wanted to build a better future for you and your children. In between you were also a mother who had to feed, house and protect her children and help them through the trauma of a divorce. You have overcome and have reason to be proud of yourself. May the new phase in your life be sweeter than yesterday and may you always remember how much it cost you to get here with pride and humbleness . You are a scarred victor who tells a story of a strong woman who refused to let anyone destroy you. You are an inspiration to many single parents who end up in the same boat as you. You are simply wonderful.❤️
 
SweetLesGirl said:
You started at the bottom and carved your way to the top with perseverance. Many of us have been privileged to watch you tirelessly press forward each day and keep going through tears and discouragement. There were days when you didn't want to anymore, but you knew you had to if you wanted to build a better future for you and your children. In between you were also a mother who had to feed, house and protect her children and help them through the trauma of a divorce. You have overcome and have reason to be proud of yourself. May the new phase in your life be sweeter than yesterday and may you always remember how much it cost you to get here with pride and humbleness . You are a scarred victor who tells a story of a strong woman who refused to let anyone destroy you. You are an inspiration to many single parents who end up in the same boat as you. You are simply wonderful.❤️
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Thank you Sweets :oops::)
 
Why do people ever respond to old threads of some women who showed off some skin but it's a woman who's left or just a thread no one has touched in half a year if not longer...
 
It always fascinates me that people underestimate other people's intelligence... like the person who creates an second or maybe its a 3th or 4th account for himself/herself but gives it away within the first 2 or 3 comments and then pretends today that he/she wasn't around here last night. One finds strange people with strange motives on the Internet. I would like to know what makes him/her tick and what he/she has tried to achieve.

Just wondering...
 
My Grand Mother always cooked tasty food. But one day, she put a burnt pie in front of my Grandpa.
Not just a little burnt, but black as coal.
I waited to see what my Grandpa would say.
But he just ate the pie and asked how my day was.
Then i heard my Grand Mother apologize to him for his dinner.
I'll never forget his response.
"Dear, i like your pie."
Later, i asked him if he had told the truth.
He put his arm on my shoulder and said, "Your Grandma had a tough day at work."
"She was tired."
"The burnt pie didn't harm me but, a sharp word could have hurt her."
We all make mistakes.
We shouldn't focus on mistakes but, support those we love.
That's the secret of long and happy relationships...
 
There are three things that changed my life….

1. If it does not contribute to my growth as a person, eliminates it
• That's why I have boundaries and when people find out they can't move or change them one of two things will happen 1. they will move on by themselves and no longer be friends with you because then they can't tell you who to be or manipulate you and or 2. they will respect your boundaries and become good friends.

2. What others think or say about me is their perception and not who I am and therefore unimportant.
•That's why I don't spend any time worrying about what others think or say about me. Instead of worrying there, they should worry why they spend so much time worrying about what I do and say instead of focusing on their own mistakes and development as a person.

3. The key to my happiness lies within myself and not in the hands of others.
•That's why I don't expect anyone to make me happy, if they contribute to my already existing happiness that I've created in myself then it's a bonus but people are not my to go to, to be happy, for that I come to myself .

Just those three things simplified and uncomplicated my life.

a wise dutch woman told me one day... you have to live with the person looking back at you from the mirror that's the one person you can't push aside or ignore so work on the best version of yourself before you tire yourself of what others say or think about you...
 
Some people are not good for your mental health, that x factor just isn't there. They can even bring out the worst in you... but that doesn't mean they're bad people, it just means they're not meant for you. To someone else, that person may be the whole world and that person may be someone else's rock or pillar of support. So even if someone is not good for your mental health, it does not mean they are not good for others. Different people resonate with different people. That's why it's also impossible to be everyone's friend, it's not even something personal it's normal is just how humanity is put together...
 
I'm asking everyone to please keep my cousin in your prayers & thoughts. She was diagnosed with cirrhosis of the liver it's stage 4. She is in need of a liver transplant and she's on the list, but if she doesn't get this she will definitely die. She has lupus and the medicine she was taking for it one of the side effects can be liver damage aka cirrhosis and sad to say this happened to her so she's very sick. She has 4 or 5 kids I wanna say I can't remember but I feel so bad for them. My heart hurts for them. So please pray she gets this liver transplant. ❤️ Thank you all.
 
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