Please stop :
- Minimise your achievements and say it was luck.
- Waiting for others to recognise you and give you the praise you don't give yourself.
- Spending time on people who don't give you the same respect and attention you give them.
- Calling yourself useless after making a simple mistake.
- Criticising your body in front of the mirror.
- Compare yourself to the pictures you see on social networks.
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I was guilty of pretty much all of those at one point. Happily not now thoughPlease stop :
- Minimise your achievements and say it was luck.
- Waiting for others to recognise you and give you the praise you don't give yourself.
- Spending time on people who don't give you the same respect and attention you give them.
- Calling yourself useless after making a simple mistake.
- Criticising your body in front of the mirror.
- Compare yourself to the pictures you see on social networks.
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Lately I am closing in more and more to that point of thinking, why am I still here on FCN? To be honest, things have changed a lot here with some of the pillars of FCN leaving us.. what once felt like a place I sort of “belonged”, doesn’t feel that way anymore.. sometimes I even feel like I’m more of a burden to this place than someone that brings fun.. there was a time I felt like I could be meaningful in some people’s life, but not anymore… so what is it that keeps us, or me here..?
Guess that’s my little thought of the day… have a good one!
Ya know, its started to show that I'm the the type of girl who will never get the pretty flowers or the pretty comments left on my wall. Even after soo many people tell me stuff in DM's which all seem like lies now ha. Forever will I be a secret friend to most of you. Makes me wonder if I should even stay here.
Just remember wether its words or flowers someone obviously wanted reach out and do something for you.Ya know, its started to show that I'm the the type of girl who will never get the pretty flowers or the pretty comments left on my wall. Even after soo many people tell me stuff in DM's which all seem like lies now ha. Forever will I be a secret friend to most of you. Makes me wonder if I should even stay here.

Been in those places once or twice. A few told me i couldn't leave because they would have no one to open up to/annoy/laugh with... so i stuck around and i sort of do feel like i belong again.Lately I am closing in more and more to that point of thinking, why am I still here on FCN? To be honest, things have changed a lot here with some of the pillars of FCN leaving us.. what once felt like a place I sort of “belonged”, doesn’t feel that way anymore.. sometimes I even feel like I’m more of a burden to this place than someone that brings fun.. there was a time I felt like I could be meaningful in some people’s life, but not anymore… so what is it that keeps us, or me here..?
Guess that’s my little thought of the day… have a good one!