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Sometimes you wish you were able to teleport to certain people and just cuddle away all their suffering.
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Why do humans lie to protect someone's feelings? I'm no exception. But every time it happens it just hurts more.

It is the sweetest of sentiments, often, when someone truly lies to protect your feelings. But I also find this to be the more rare thing. The more common lie is not really about you or your feelings at all. It is about them trying to avoid the impact of your feelings. That is a completely different thing. The former is truly caring about you, does not want to see you hurt. The latter does not want to be caught, to feel your anger, to be seen negatively, to be known for what a scumbag they really are, to be known for who they are. Yeah. That is the more common lie.
 
I was in a not so great relationship for a very long time. I thought I was happy and that he was my missing puzzle piece. I thought if we ever broke up I would be devastated and never be truly happy again. Thought I would always have that weird empty feeling there.
Well... we have been broken up for over a month now, sure it still hurts and I am working through it, but the more I am healing, the more I am moving on and really think back on things. I was never truly happy. That relationship was the definition of toxic and I'm pretty sure I just liked the company more then anything. That was not love. It was me clinging on to false hope and on to a person who was actual poison.
I am happier now.
Don't be blinded by desire for something. Don't try to make something work that in reality is not meant to be. Listen to all those red flags or you will just get hurt and waste your time.
 

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